like this weekend he spends the entire day out snowmobiling with his buddies and drinks all day long doesn't come home until 12:30 am, sleeps all day today, and then he wants me to come up for sex....I was like NO. What would you say to him.
By the way we have 3 children
2007-02-12 09:55:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I almost never go out with girlfriends and if I do I certainly don't get all drunk and forget to come home
I am not trying to be HARSH, I just want him to realize that WE have children together and a family. It isn't the first time this has happened.
2007-02-12 15:13:41 · update #1
I would tell him to grow up and get his priorities straight. Make him realize what he is missing out on by negelcting his family. He needs to be a family man now not act like a single guy.
2007-02-12 10:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by Candy C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's really harsh. Sounds like a dream weekend except for the getting shot down by your wife at the end part... what a kick in the balls! Do you ever go out with girlfriends? Just because you have a family doesn't mean you can't have friends. Besides, snowmobiling is kickass! LOL your husband sounds like a really cool guy, and the fact that you want him around more often is a good sign, but cutting him off from sex and using sex as a weapon in general is not a good way to go about things. If anything it will only drive a wedge between you to. Why don't you try honestly telling him how you feel? and not be so vindictive about it?
2007-02-12 10:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Like this just started happening.
Sorry you made three kids with him, and there are worse mistakes but you have to keep this one and love him.
So you should have said yes to the sex, its not like you get that much time to begin with.
Next life don't marry a boy.
2007-02-12 10:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
read "the proper care and feeding of husbands" and "the proper care and feeding of marriage" GREAT BOOKS!! Also "love and respect" is a good one too.
YOU need to give him a reason to DESIRE to stay at home with you- there must be some reason he prefers to go away then to stay with you. Make your home a peaceful sanctuary and he will never want to leave.
2007-02-12 10:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Humble Proclaimer♥ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He has a maid and a f*ck buddy when he wants. What else does he need. Put your foot down, and keep it down, or your knees together and keep them there, until he comes around. He might or might not, its a cr*p shoot.
2007-02-12 10:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't say anything. He'd come home and find all his **** outside and he'd know I'm sick of him.
2007-02-12 10:06:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD HAVE SAID "HELL NO! I'M TOO TIRED FROM DOINKING MY BOYFRIEND ALL DAY."
2007-02-12 10:02:19 · answer #7 · answered by sweetbabykitty 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋