finshed, the bath room is cleaned, the closet door is closed, all clothes are picked up off the floor, umm the furniture is dusted just so and well the fire place is cleaned out! Does he have mental issues?
2007-02-12 09:47:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
did you marry "Adrian Monk" or what. Some things Ican see. If he wanted to shower first or brush his teeth so he was right for you but damn the toilet gets more of his attention than you. Call a phychiatrist asap cause it sounds like ocd. If you love him and want to work it out stay and work through it, if not run and run fast.
2007-02-12 10:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by bbdne4lyfe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's definitely not normal. It sounds like he might have obsessive compulsive disorder. Both my parents have it!! lol. It's basically caused by a lot of anxiety and constant worry. They do all sorts of things like washing hands because they're extremely scared of germs, having to check locked doors and windows a certain amount of times before they can relax (this number can reach upto in the 100's), things always have to be put back into the right place, etc. If they're routine gets messed up they become really angry, worried and freak out. Just look into the disorder a little bit more and see if he has the same symptoms. If he doesn't, I would be thinking about leaving him.
2007-02-12 17:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by metal4eva_19 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you the one with the husband who watches MASH and woodwork shows? Anyway, you know what you are asking it could be that you two just need to sit and talk to one another, without the television on. Tell him how you feel. Men need attention too, not just women. So, if you want to feel appreciated, then appreciate him back for the things he does like going to work each day, putting gas in the car, etc....the things he does for you. Thank him for it! I am sure he will see that you appreciate him, then he will do more things with you and for you....he will learn to appreciate you too.
Otherwise, do read these two books that can be helpful to you and your husband called, "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" and "The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage". You cannot go wrong with these two great books! (smile)
I don't think he has mental issues, I just think that you are needing his attention, but if he is not giving it to you, then get his attention by doing what I said on your earlier question.....if you treat him like a King, he will treat you like a Queen!
2007-02-12 18:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yea, that sounds boring as hell. What happened to spontoneity? Has he forgotten how much fun that is? Gees girl, what r u still doing there? I couldnt handle such an anal man. Its more like a chore or something than sharing yourselves with each other because u want to express your love???????
I cant imagine!!!!
I would have to go. Sorry, but thats just too much.
Good luck.
2007-02-12 17:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure he is not avoiding you for other issues. It may be more than having a clean house. How is the rest of your relationship?
Because even if I do all that before the sex, I still have enough energy for the sex.
2007-02-12 18:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by electricpong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After reading several of your posts, sounds like you are the one with the mental issues. Maybe the problem is that you are a slob. Men generally are not attracted to lazy *** slobs. Clean up your act girl and maybe you will get some.
2007-02-12 21:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definatly he has a problem.
He couid either avoiding sex, or has control issues or has something call obcessive complulisve disorder. aka OCD
Does he have this behavior in other parts of his life? Rituals he needs to do before starting the car? Routiens of washing or other things he does in life?
Check with your doctor, even if he doesn't go, you go and talk to your doctor
2007-02-12 18:16:07 · answer #7 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he has control issues big time, and maybe even some kind of OCD issue as well. See if you can convince him to seek therapy. Good luck.
2007-02-12 18:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the M*A*S*H rerun over yet?
I think YOU have mental issues if things got to this point before you began questioning the mental health of your spouse.....
2007-02-12 17:50:44 · answer #9 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I keep getting this strange visual about the word MOTHER
2007-02-12 21:17:58 · answer #10 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋