I know some immature prick is gonna make fun of me for asking this, so please answer this seriously, I have a really good body, big muscles and a six pack, you know, the goods, and when I you know, get “freaky” with myself, I talk dirty and do it all in front of a mirror and I watch myself and kind of get off to it. Does this make me gay? Please give me honest answers.
2007-02-12 09:42:06 · 53 answers · asked by john g 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
No you're not gay. Just a little wierd...
2007-02-12 09:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by Squirrel 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, I am definately not immature but I don't think you'll like my answer. If you are embarassed by something that you do, then that is probably a good reason not to do it. If I saw someone I was attracted to doing what you describe, I would immediately be turned off, you never know who might see you and out you to the world. Sounds a little like Buffalo Bill, from "Silence of the lambs" remember the mirror scene?
2007-02-12 09:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by barbara b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No bro, of course not. Your just obviously confident with your image, with all of that hard work put in to building that muscle. Your also increasing your charisma to start the day out nicely. If your thinking about setting an impression on the chicks when your doing this, then your fine. Besides, if your gay, your gay, we just need more love in this world anyways (but I dont think you are). All guys do this in their life a few times. Just don't go have a kid when your 17. Have a good day. Don't spaz over this little thing. Besides, when your 50, all that muscle will turn to wrinkles... lol. Jking. But it kinda does...
2007-02-12 09:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by pianobroda 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that the word "queer" is kind of demeaning. You are what you are. Be comfortable with yourself. If you like women, great, like women. If you like men, fine, like men. If you like them both, well, it might make it difficult when it comes time to settle into a long term relationship (if that is what you hope for someday). but either way, be who you are. There is nothing wrong with fantasizing about different things when you are getting "freaky" with yourself. It's all legal and acceptable when you are alone. What matters is how these things manifest themselves into your daily life, out in the world. When you are out and about, do you find yourself checking out one sex more than another? Do you get more excited when talking to a woman or a man? It can be a turn on to think about "forbidden" things while in a state of auto-eroticism, but what matters is how you identify yourself in the aspect of relationships with others. Good luck.
2007-02-12 09:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by ta2dpilot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...good question. That doesnt necessarily make you gay. Unless you are thinking about other guys that have similar body structure to your own. Then, you might be a bit curious about what its like to fool around with another guy. Most guys get off in front of a mirror for technique or to see whats its like...seeing you cant see yourself doing it otherwise. Hope that helps!
2007-02-12 09:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not queer. Different things turn people on. Don't sweat it. Until you actually are with another man, don't consider yourself gay. In fact, current sexual psychology points more towards a spectrum of "sexuality" as opposed to gay, straight or bi. Its not all black and white. Either way, you're practicing the safest sex around, so have fun!!
2007-02-12 09:47:05 · answer #6 · answered by mrswho86 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It only makes you gay if you are attracted to and want to have sex with men. Examine yourself.....close your eyes and think of a hot guy (other than the image on your mirror) vs a hot girl and fantasize...which would you rather be making love to? By the fact that it makes you worried about it, it's also a sign that you aren't...silly
2007-02-12 09:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by peachesncream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this makes you "Queer". I think you would be the only one to answer your own question. When I use to work out at the gym, aside from checking out my own body, I would check out the other guys to see what I could improve on myself. You may be going through this ego phase as far as your body is concerned.
The other question is very simple for you, do you prefer women over men?
2007-02-12 09:49:42 · answer #8 · answered by Kenn B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that makes you gay is if you are sexually attracting to other guys. What you've written above does not, in my opinion, make you gay.
Be comfortable with who you are....Ignore the immature pricks if they do take the pi**.
2007-02-12 09:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't make you gay at all. You just like yourself a lot...possibly you could be a narcist. Who knows...and who cares as long as you are happy? I enjoy watching myself in mirror as well and I'm happy.
I hope this helps. Take care!
2007-02-12 09:47:51 · answer #10 · answered by Este 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes you a red-blooded teenager. Nothing else. You're smart that you're working through the hormones by yourself, rather than getting some little girl pregnant.
If you're gay, you're gay. Be cool with who you are. You'll end up being who you're supposed to be.
2007-02-12 09:45:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋