iam 13 i have had one boyfriend and he cheated on me. I want to know what to do to get a guy without changing myself , plus the guys at my school are into SKINNY girls and iam on the bigger side.
2007-02-12 09:34:28 · 21 answers · asked by (TMM) 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
plus the boyfriend i had kept telling he loved me. within the first 20 minutes if going out with him he wanted to kiss me on the lips so i think he was just using me.
PS i didnt kiss him
2007-02-12 09:37:36 · update #1
every time i am around certain guys i get all different. i act different and i think that makes them stay away from me!
2007-02-12 09:46:24 · update #2
Maybe go after a different kind of guy? Many of the best looking guys have many girls after them, and the bad boys might be attractive but they are sure to wander. A guy who is more nerd like would worship you and never ever stray from your side, you just need to find them acceptable. ♥♥♥
2007-02-12 09:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Any time a guy under the age of 25 tells you he loves you kick him between the legs....
He doesn't know what love is, so how can he be telling you he loves you. He wants you, to kiss you, or get in your pants, but he certainly does not love you.
Being 13 you therefore have 12 years of "fooling around" before you can even start thinking about committing to any one guy. Play the field, be nice, be fun to be around, don't cuss, don't hide in the corner, wear conservative clothing, develope an outgoing personality, join the band, be a friend to everyone, but put yourself above "dating" anyone. Eventually the guys will be falling over each other to get what cannot be gotten.
oh and until you turn 18 if someone over the age of 25 tells you he loves you, call the cops
2007-02-12 17:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The right guy will like you for who you are not for what you look like. If you can't get a good guy now then just wait it out. I'm 16 so I remember being 13 just fine and yeah, I had a boyfriend...BUT realize it doesn't matter as much as you think it does. Guys your age (and in some cases, my age lol) are too immature and shallow for relationships. Under no circumstance should you change yourself...just be friendly, flirt a little, and the right guy will come along. Good luck!
2007-02-12 17:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by coldasyou213 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 13 and have the same problem! It's not that bad after a while. Everyone at our age is like, "OMG!! He's so hot! I wanna go out with him" and thats mostly what girls thinks about, is hot guys. But, it's not that big of a deal if you have a boyfriend. ENJOY BEING SINGLE! It's not like your going to marry him. I still kinda get mad if boys don't ask me out. But, they comes around. You'll find the right guy sometime.
Just stay the way you are. DON'T change at all. Just be yourself and if you like one guy, just be nicer to him. You don't need to change around them. If you like a guy, just give him hints: smile at him, talk to him alot, flirt, look into his eyes.... etc. Good luck!!
2007-02-12 18:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by Dancin' HOTTIE!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to change yourself cuz if you do, and you get someone, the personalaties are gonna clash b/c it's not the real u. GIRL, I am skinny and it's not all it's cut out to be. You have no Idea what I would give to get me some curves.(ok I 'm getting off track) BTW, I'm glad you recognized that guy for what he was, a cheater. Be single and confident, I am. And remember, confident and cocky are too different things. Oh and listen to Dapeik. (above) he has good advice.
2007-02-12 17:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by <Me> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously, you do not have to change yourself just to please a guy. you are still young, and soon you will realise that you need to look good, but not because of the guys!
people of your age don't treat their relationships seriously, don't you think so? So what if your ex cheated on you? maybe you could find a better person when you grow up.
the guys at your school go to skinny girls, doesn't mean that you have no suitors,when you grow up i mean.
just study hard now and talk about relationships later, ok? And also do not lose confidence about yourself!
2007-02-16 03:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by HumanBeingOnEarth! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I know how you feel when I was 13 I was chubby and I couldn't get a boyfriend, I was the only one of my friends who had never had a boyfriend. I got thinner throughout high school but still not much luck in the guy department, until my junior year of high school when I met my husband!
The point is if your just patient love will find you when you least expect it!
2007-02-12 17:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by mcm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you should never have to change yourself to get a guy to like you, if he doesn't like you for you then he is not worth your time. your only 13 as you get older guys will grow up and realize that there is more to a girl other then being skinny.
if your boyfriend is going to cheat on you he is not worth it.
when i was younger i was dating this guy and he cheated on my all the time i even caught him a couple times. i was in pretty good shape and all and i thought why is he cheating on me what did i do?? well now i am dating this guy and he is great he respects me for me and i can be me around him....
2007-02-12 17:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by redhot_001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and i are a lot alike, im 13 guys doont like me at all. but seriously dont change yourself i tried doing that because i thought i was fat and then i took a good look at my self in the mirror, then my friends told me as well. i wear a size 3 ladies and for my height thats okay. so really dont change your self just find out ways that make you loook tottally great everyday and when your 13 guys go after girls with confidence mostly
good luck!
2007-02-12 18:05:17 · answer #9 · answered by Blonde_bombshell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy who dates you should like you for who you are, girl! People come in all different shapes and sizes, and that shouldn't matter. If that guy cheated on you, he didn't deserve you anyway. Don't change yourself! Sing your own song, be proud of who you really are.
Show your personality to get the perfect guy. Trust me, a relationship will last much longer if it is based on honesty, trust, and the person who you are inside. I relationship will fall apart if it's based on looks! Trust me!
2007-02-12 17:39:48 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Mischa S. ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋