I have a friend who i think is dangerous. I tell her that a some boys likes me. She has no interest in them before i tell her this. As soon as she sees how they act toward me for herself, she starts flirting. I don't know the boys so she makes sure she gets to know them first. The thing is that she is not flattering to look at, sorry to say. So there shouldn't be any competition. When she get's to the the guys who like me, they don't even show any indication of liking her. They still look at me and she sees that.
One time she told me "Look he's staring at you" and i saw him. Then all of a sudden she started doing an erotic dance to get his attention. He didn't even look at her. She comes up to me and says that the boys stare at her when she knows that they like me.
I was just wondering what if it was someone whom i really like. I wouldn't even bring a boyfriend around her. As a friend you shouldn't do that. At least i know i never would.
Why do you think she acts that way?
2007-02-12 09:08:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds to me like your friend has very low self-esteem. She thinks the only way to get attention is to get attention from boys in this manner. I know it can be really frustrating to have happen. But she does it because she feels bad about herself.
There isn't a whole lot you can do to stop her aside from being positive about her other strengths.
And as to your concerns about a possible boyfriend...if he is worth keeping he won't be interested in your friend, no matter what stunts she tries to pull.
2007-02-12 09:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by Enyo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET AWAY FROM HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! A girl i once called my 'best friend' for three years was this same way, only i was too blind. once i got into a serious relationship, she became overly jealous and possessive, and would ALWAYS flirt with him, tell me how hot my bf was and how she "TOTALLY would've gone for him", and she even tells me when she has DREAMS about being together with him. This was the last straw for me, and after explaining to her among many other qualities that i hate about her, i dumped her *** and am no longer her friend. I COULDNT BE HAPPIER...........
2007-02-12 17:18:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's very insecure and is envious of the attention you receive. She is pretty pathetic and not a very good friend.
2007-02-12 17:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by Yo' Mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, this girl is so insecure and very jealous of you. She is not a friend.
2007-02-12 17:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by ladywildfireok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants what you have
2007-02-12 17:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by TOM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋