I slept with guy #1 on a regular basis, #2 only once. I want #2 to be the father but is it possible for him to be the father seeing that I found out I was pregnant 2 weeks to the day that we slept together. Or should I lean more towards #1 since I slept with him on a regular basis?
2007-02-12 09:06:23 · 44 answers · asked by Adimu S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm not going to call you any names because I'm sure you are already torn up inside about this situation. What I can suggest is that you come clean with both guys so they can weigh in on whats going on and figure out what they want to do when you give birth. For the child's sake please request DNA test for both men, its only fair. What happens to your relationship with these guys is your own doing but as of right now there is one person that matters and its the child you are carrying. That's important!!! Good luck.
2007-02-12 09:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by CeeCee19 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Adimu,
Sadly we live in the same city so I know who u are. First let me say this to the readers, seeing that I know the whole story, I won't call you a hoe, I'll just say you've been doing some hoe activities, I want to know why you lied to #1, he has no idea that you had the baby early and that he isnt the only person you say is the father, #2 is my boyfriend. Did you not think that maybe you should go by a different name than your own so people from our town wouldnt find out. I'll say this. You've told so many lies it may be possible that there is a 3,4,5,6,7 or hell 10 guys who may be the daddy. Why would you sleep around with so many men with no protection. Not to say I've always practiced safe sex, but thats too risky for my taste. You already have one kid who your rasing on your own, why did you add another. I'm tired of my tax dollars paying for the welfare of children, who of course are innocent but there whore mothers continue to populate this earth as if they have no idea that birth controll is FREE. Now common since will tell you that if you slept with both men around the same time but found out you were pregnant excatly 2 weeks after you slept with #2 and you had a positive test that you were probably already pregnant. Also you told me and #2 that you took the morning after pill 3days after you slept with them both. Ya'll she really is a tramp, but so is #2. You slept with #1 on Thursday, #2 on Friday and #1 numerous times after that. So really I cant wait for the DNA test. Because all of you dirty lies will come out. Either your lying about the time in which you got pregnant, or your lying about who all you slept with. Time will tell. I'm glad I'm STD free, I hope you are.
2007-02-12 11:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by cuz_queen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This has little to do with who you want to be the father and who the actual father is as your child will deserve the truth. You have to think about there future what if one or the other of these guys has a hereditary disease?. Give your child the best possible start be honest with both blokes have the child and have a DNA test put every ones minds at ease and make your son or daughters future a more stable one.
2007-02-16 07:41:35 · answer #3 · answered by sm80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have to wait until birth and do DNA teasting to resolve this since the two incidentrs were that close together and you're not sure of your period or ovulation. I think you need to take a real test at a OB/GYN to get at least a better idea.
2016-03-29 03:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All it takes is one time to get pregnant........Im afraid you wont know until you get a paternity test done.........can you figure out when you ovulated? If you slept with guy #1 while ovulating and guy#2 just after.........guy number 1 would be the likely father.........i wouldnt bank on that though..........get the test or you will never no for sure
2007-02-12 09:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by lin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anything anyone on here tells you is going to be purely a guess. What you need is a paternity test. Its the only way to know for sure. It only takes one time to get pregnant, so the frequency with which you slept with each one has no impact on the outcome.
2007-02-12 09:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by I love sushi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can understand your dilemma - however maybe you should be worrying more about catching an STD than who the father of your baby is. Am not trying to dampen your mood - you just need to be careful in this day
Perhaps you should go and get checked by a doctor to make sure you are ok - good luck
2007-02-12 23:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by Brown_shooga_2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter how regularly you slept with them. Either man could be the father. There is no way of telling because you slept with them so close together.
2007-02-12 20:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by Ricecakes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
id say number 1 possibly the dad but you wont know for sure untill the baby is born and have a dna test... what are u doing sleeping with 2 guys at the same time and even worse not using protection
2007-02-12 09:12:52 · answer #9 · answered by michelle m 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girllllllllll Girl!! Girl!! It could be either one! Do you want this baby!! You couldn't love any of these guys or you wouldn't be sleeping around. If I was you I would get an abortion and be more careful the next time. Start using birth control and using a condom. It's a lot worst things you can get then pregnant!!
2007-02-12 09:35:16 · answer #10 · answered by CAROLYN B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋