she went to the doctor and the doc took a look at her breasts while there. i had to watch and now she refuses to talk to me. she is 15. also, my son needs to go tommorow and i'm scared i'll need to look and his... you know. he's shy and is 12 and doesn't like to talk about puberty and he might have the talk b/c he has pubic hair. what should i do if he stars ignoring me
2007-02-12 08:49:08 · 12 answers · asked by Dan 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
you're a man??? why would you be in the room with her? why would the doctor need to look at a 15 year old's breasts> ? you're a troll and sound like an on line preadator.
BUSTED YOU LITTLE TROLL......
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2007-02-12 08:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-03 06:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no reason youd have to be in the room, watching her unless you were that afraid that the doc was gonna start molesting your daughter but think about it do you really think a doctor would throw away all those years at school to touch a 15 y/o when he would find him self a hooker or something that and im guessing your not a doctor so why would you have to look if you dont know what to be looking for.... im 15 and when the doctor has to check out my boobs they never say that my mom has to be in the same room, my moms a doctor so she could do that herself but ew i dont want that.
2007-02-12 11:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Reassure her that it's okay to talk about it. Give her an example; like how the D.R. checked you for the first time. It's embarrassing but it's not anything to be ashamed of it's part of growing up. I have three daughters 18,14,and 12 and trust me. Every talk was different. Don't push the issue they'll come around. Well try this talk to the D.R. about your son's shyness maybe he can help you. It takes time and patience as a mom, I understand where you're coming from. Good Luck!
2007-02-12 09:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by redrose11 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a stage and they will eventually get over it. When the time comes apoligize. Just let them be because teens at this age are very embaressed by there "mom" I know trust me. Your son will be the same way and if you really don't want to deal with that send the father in instead.=) He shouldn't make you do it again right?
2007-02-12 08:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by Love Me Tender* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called a penis....why are you embarrassed to say that? Why did you need to be in the room and look at your daughter's breasts? Furthermore, why did the doctor? Why do you know so much your about kids private areas? That's odd to me. She's probably just embarrassed.
2007-02-12 08:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by First Lady 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to call the police and ask them why your 15 year old daughter doesn't want you looking at her breasts. Are you an idiot? You have to be an idiot!
2007-02-12 17:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just live with the 'ignoring' for a little while. They may feel embarassed. But it passes. Especially if you are relaxed and just go on shopping for them as usual.
2007-02-14 12:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont watch then get out the room when the doc checks them out how easy is that
2007-02-12 09:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i know how embarassing it is!!! sorry she is ignooring you...im 18, and pregnant, and i was so embarrased when my fiance wanted to be in the room while they started the initial pap smear, and last week she had to look at my breasts and i just couldnt talk to him, i dont know why....i guess its a natural thing
2007-02-12 08:52:21 · answer #10 · answered by ruspecialenuf 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋