lonelyness is such a drag
2007-02-12 08:30:31 · 24 answers · asked by qwerty 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Depends I have felt alone at one time that is awful and it's different to being lonely, I am never lonely always have friends to talk to, only some are lonely and it must be so bad for them. There are some who are at this moment sitting on there own with not a soul in the world to bother about them or even care that is being lonely so think of those and maybe your loneliness won't be that lonely anymore
2007-02-12 08:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loneliness is certainly a negative feeling, but it does not automatically have to arise out of being alone. Furthermore, one can feel lonely even when surrounded by other people, if one feels they have no connexion to them.
What is the solution to this problem? Clearly, loneliness is a failure to reach out to the world, to make a significant contact with it, since the feeling has little to do with the presence or absence of others. Perhaps, then, loneliness is simply a problem of communication, a failure to inform others of who we truly are, thus the loneliness of people who feel they are "living a lie" - they may be conversing with others all the time, yet they feel a very real part of themselves is not in contact with the world.
So the solution to loneliness must come out of finding out, first and foremost, who we truly are. Then, in finding the courage to express who that person is and thus find contact anew with the outside world in a genuine fashion.
2007-02-12 08:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. Being alone doesn't automatically generate loneliness, for quite a few folks. And, it is important to "learn" how to be alone without it producing anxiety and that "empty" feeling. It is true that how you feel about a given situation is wholly subjective. And you are entitled to feel how you feel. Nevertheless, numerous people i have encountered actually preferred to spend as much time as possible by themselves: they always seemed to be able to keep themselves quite engaged with activities of interest on their own. And, i've noticed that as people get older they don't seem to be quite as disturbed by plenty of "alone time". So, finally, why not try to see some positive aspects to "unavoidable solitude"? And develop some interests which actually are better done on your own? Ultimately, we all will have those situations, why not enjoy them. In terms of balance, it helps to offset those times of over stimulation and hyper-sociability.
2007-02-12 10:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by drakke1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it can be, however, being lonely or alone can be seen as a positive thing as well. seeing as for example, you don't have rows and fights with your other half and you are in control of your life, without other people telling you what to do. of course there are certain people who are single in life and who prefer it to remain that way, whatever their reasons may be. but for a person who has had several relationships in the past, and all of which failed and of whom decide not to go down that route again, they see that being single is not only a positive thing but that life doesn't always mean they have to find and settle down with their true love. as for myself, i am still young but i want and hope to settle when i am a little bit older, so for me being lonely isn't a drag at all
2007-02-12 10:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 06:36:52 · answer #5 · answered by speth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is a drag, but it’s supposed to be. I’m not pointing fingers, but so many people fight negative emotions, and never really experience them to their fullest.
Try to embrace all of your emotions equally, pleasant and unpleasant alike. Wallow in them, dive head first into the scariest ones and ride it to the very end.
By allowing unpleasant emotions to come and go without resistance, they lose their power over you. You learn from them if you don’t try to fight them off.
2007-02-12 08:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by steve_monroe_2005 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
both, u have to b positive and turn the situation around. do some soulsearching, look within ur self and at why ur lonely and if u want to change that situation. time on ur own is good for evaluating ur life and views and deciding if anything could be changed for the better, setting goals and giving urself praise for achievements.
2007-02-12 08:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by michee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Loneliness is another one of those terms that seems to be relative. First you must classify loneliness. Loneliness can be present even when one is undoubtedly surrounded by people. It is your connection with the people that you are with, or your overall lack thereof, that may make you lonely...or not so lonely...
2007-02-12 08:47:26 · answer #8 · answered by third_syren_of_seduction 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TRUE. but in some cases we need some loneliness times to think and discover more about ourselves.
2007-02-12 08:51:11 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it's a drag - but sometimes I like being by myself just to have a quiet think
2007-02-12 08:35:14 · answer #10 · answered by don't stop the music ♪ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋