my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex. He didn't pull out ,and we did that about 3 times and so i thought i was pregnant. After a couple of weeks, i waited for my missed period but i was shocked to find out that i got my period.
how is it possbile for me not to get pregnant? i really thought i was ,because he didnt pull out. what's wrong with me?
2007-02-12 07:53:56 · 7 answers · asked by elsiemarie 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It's not 100%.... LOL anything can happen. It took me over a year to get pregnant. Nothing is wrong with me, and there is nothing wrong with you.
When did you have sex??? Did you for SURE ovulate that month? Perhaps the egg was defective. Maybe you did get pregnant and it didnt develope properly and came right back out. Who knows.
BTW him NOT pulling out means nothing, you were just as much likely to get pregnant with him pulling out as you were with him coming inside of you.
Girls every day use the pull out method and are lucky enough to get pregnant. They assume this is an effective method of protection because of this when in reality it's just dumb luck.
2007-02-12 07:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by Gig 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, how old are you? Most likely there is nothing wrong with you... if you don't have sperm living inside of you when you ovulate it is impossible to get pregnant. In reality, there is only a 6-12 hour window each cycle where pregnancy can occur. Most women ovulate around days 12-16 of a normal 28 day cycle and sperm can live inside for up to 5 days, but if you had sex right after your period, or more than halfway through your cycle, chances are you wouldn't get pregnant. Doctors recommend you be trying to conceive for 6-12 months depending on age before they look at your fertility or your partners. And if you're as young as I think you are, be glad that you didn't get pregnant this time. If you don't like condoms, talk to your doctor about getting on the pill. And if you are trying to get pregnant, talk to your partner about it. The decision to try to conceive should be a mutual one - not one made alone.
2007-02-12 08:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by Stacy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't have sex during the right time of the month (when you were ovulating) then you would not have gotten pregnant, and there is nothing wrong with you. Regardless of what people say on this website, there are only a few days a month that a person can get pregnant! If the conditions are right inside of you then sperm can live inside you for up to 5 days, of you don't ovulate then the sperm have nothing to fertilize. If the conditions are not right inside of you then the sperm die right away. Please read a book on fertility!
2007-02-12 08:04:58 · answer #3 · answered by Lilat180 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you have unprotected sex doesn't mean that you will automatically get pregnant on the first try. It can take some women up to a year or more to get pregnant. I think you need to do some research on becoming pregnant before jumping to conclusions.
2007-02-12 08:01:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sakora 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do realize that pregnancy is not guaranteed just because you had sex, don't you?!?! Grow up, get married, then worry about having a baby!
2007-02-12 08:00:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
The gods were looking down on you
2007-02-12 08:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u didnt or couldnt have gotten pregnet unless he came inside you unless u felt him come in you then there could have been a chance u could have gotten pregnet
2007-02-12 07:58:48 · answer #7 · answered by prOud LesbiaN 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋