Ok so my boyfriend has finished in me several, several times and im not pregnant?!?! Why is this?
2007-02-12 07:53:39 · 14 answers · asked by kristyj_09 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Just because you have unprotected sex doesn't mean that you will automatically get pregnant on the first try. It can take some women up to a year or more to get pregnant. I think you need to do some research on becoming pregnant before jumping to conclusions.
2007-02-12 08:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by Sakora 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can take a long time to get pregnant. Most women are only fertile for a brief window around when they ovulate. You can try to pinpoint this time by using ovulation prediction strips, available at the drugstore. You can also try to pinpoint it using the fertility awareness method, which has you track your body temperature and cervical fluids to find out when you likely ovulated. Software like Ovusoft and Fertility Friend (free) can help with this method. That way you can have sex when you are most fertile. Or you can just keep trying, which is also fun.
Depending on how long you have been trying, I would not yet worry about fertility problems. Most doctors will not consider fertility problems unless you have been trying without success for at least a year. However, if you are over 35, they may consider looking earlier.
There are other things you can do to maximise fertility, including eating right, quitting smoking and as someone else pointed out, ensuring your boyfriend is wearing boxers. Also, you should start taking folic acid even before you are pregnant to avoid common birth defects. You can get folic acid (you should aim for 0.4 mg) in a multivitamin geared for women.
2007-02-12 12:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by sparklish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets component in a few technological know-how right here.. You had intercourse, you obtained pregnant, you took scan, scan says your pregnant... Guess what your pregnant! I used to be four weeks pregnant while I discovered with a $one million.00 scan from the Dollar Tree! Dr. verified that every one exams regardless of the rate are all designed to discover the identical hormone so a scan is a scan accu transparent, transparent blue, or Dollar Tree! BTW you'll nonetheless have your interval while your pregnant! The woman underneath me does not recognize what she is speakme approximately! I do is checking out and folks get fake positives always! It might be for a quantity of explanations none of them I will inform you seeing that there's no intent to get folks disenchanted!
2016-09-05 07:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been trying? Are you having sex around your ovulation times? Do you KNOW when you ovulate? Check out the book "Taking Charge of your Fertility"
Every time you have intercourse (unprotected) a woman has about a 20% of conceiving. On average, 20% of all couples trying to get pregnant will not conceive in the first year of trying.
According to one study, 25% of couples get pregnant in the first month of trying, while 60% of couples trying to get pregnant do so within six months. On the other hand, 75% of couples get pregnant within nine months while 80% get pregnant within a year. Finally, some 90% of couples get pregnant within eighteen months of trying.
Best of luck.
2007-02-12 08:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by duckygrl21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only a 24-48 hour period per month that a woman can get pregnant. If he finshed in you on a non fertile day than you would not get pregnant. The day your period starts in day 1. You can get pregnant on day 13-15 on a 28 day cycle. So if you want to get pregnant mid cycle is best.
2007-02-12 07:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by TennesseeGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mnay many many many reasons why. You weren't ovulating (you can only get pregnant when you are ovulating) Maybe you CAN'T get pregnant. Maybe your boyfriend is shooting blanks. See a specialist if you really want to find out.
2007-02-12 07:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by maybe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He could be 'shooting blanks', you could be having sex at the wrong times of the month, you could have cyst's or tissue build-up in your reproductive system, or you could be...happy that you don't have any toddlers bursting into your bedroom as your coming, or babies screaming in the background interrupting your good sex! (smile) Just wishing out loud. Sorry.
2007-02-12 08:01:14 · answer #7 · answered by hot black babe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you on birth control...recently stopped taking birth control? If neither of these apply to you...you or your boyfriend may be experiencing some infertility issues, or you or him could possibly be sterile.
2007-02-12 07:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by Christen 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you trying to get pregnant with out being married? Is this so you can collect welfare?
2007-02-12 07:58:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
does he wear briefs? have him wear boxers and start a fertility calendar maybe that will help, and if not both of u should get chekced out
2007-02-12 07:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋