Why do I have to cut every time my friend hurts me. He just a guy. I want help I think it's cause he treats me like $hit I've put up with him so many times but this time it got to me. WHAT DO I DO STILL TALK TO HIM OR JUST WALK AWAY NEXT TIME HE COMES TO TALK TO ME?
2007-02-12 07:52:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i used to do the same thing when i was younger. My reasoning was i had a hard time identifying with the strong emotions that were directly related to a specific person who was special.( loved one). The problem is that upon not knowing how to deal with the pain emotionally i would inflict pain physically to bring it out of me. This however means that i was extremely depressed and was lacking self control. You need to figure out what is good about the relationship and what is bad. compare.... is there more bad than good? If so it is an unhealthy relationship and you need to move on and seek out someone who cares about you and seek counselling to be able to act out your feelings without repercussions. You dont deserve to be treated bad by him or yourself. Human happiness should be contageous.
2007-02-12 08:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by e_deckwa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have the power to stop the abuse, it's not going to get better.
This is the time to run away not walk away when he comes around. This is your life, live your life, it's yours to live, no one else. You sound young and can start over with new friends at you side, who've got your back. When you feel the need to hurt yourself, remember this, we all are dying, this is planet school, we learn, we live, we die but we die one death, no need to die one thousand deaths. Live it out as well as you can. Look at what you're doing as your personal challenge and pray to Jesus to help you by guiding your every step. I feel for you, may my words go directly to God's ears and may you be aware of the angels around you.
God bless us all...
2007-02-12 15:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by lee f 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away!! If him hurting you is making you hurt yourself, you do not need to talk to him or be with him.
2007-02-12 15:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by Ballher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are cutting yourself because you can't feel emotional pain. You are inflicting this pain because you can still feel it. Get away from him and find someone who will listen to you.
Walk away..life is to short.
2007-02-16 15:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by Kbear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say walk away because he is not worth your time if he is causing you pain.......there are alot more guys in this world to meet so dont waste your time on someone that is like that!!!!
2007-02-12 16:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just walk away if hes hurting you
2007-02-12 15:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by smileygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋