do most husbands prefer if their wife plays hard to get when it comes to her giving him hugs, kisses and such or does he prefer her to be all tender and nice and happily willing to accept his hugs, kisses and such and for her to return hugs and kisses to him like this?
2007-02-12 06:59:56 · 17 answers · asked by dreamz 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The answer is both and neither. If you give too much affection too often, then we start feeling smothered and bothered. If you play hard too hard to get, we feel neglected and unappreciated. The trick is to offer up just enough attention here and there. Like lightly scratching the back of his neck while he's driving, running your nails slowly up and down the inside of his thigh while you're watching TV, or moaning very softly in his ear ever once in a while when you're giving him a hug. Also.....guys like being told how good they are in the sack. So maybe a day or two afterwards, send him a text message saying that you're still smiling from the other night! It's the little things that make us guys smile! If women knew how easy we were to control with just the right amount of love, attention, and sex, then they wouldn't complain about us so much!!!!!
2007-02-12 07:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Happy and willing. Most of those lil cute games fade away after years of marriage. A hug and kiss is valued.
2007-02-12 15:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by Robbyz3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most would prefer their wives not to play hard to get for kisses and hugs.
2007-02-12 15:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing hard to get is a game and the older you get the more you'll find that huggs and kisses reasures both of you of your love throughout the day....when they aren't around you can think about his/ her sweet kisses and be eager to come home to them.
who wants to come home to a cold fish?
2007-02-12 15:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by Hi its me again 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can care less how my wife acts. When I want hugs and kisses or whatever else, I get hugs and kisses or whatever else. I am a man d a m m i t!
2007-02-12 15:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My hubby likes when I give up the hugs and kisses to him, makes life better.
2007-02-12 19:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men do not like wives who are "hard to get". That can be fun once in a while, but the poor guy will be exhausted always having to "win" his wife.
Tender and nice babe. Hard to get is a pain in the butt.
2007-02-12 15:02:53 · answer #7 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
playing hard to get should be done while you are dating. once you have been married, you should be willing and happy to receive his affection. if you aren't, it could be perceived in a negative way. most men would assume you are cheating or unhappy in the marriage if you act like that.
2007-02-12 15:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by deeshair 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I prefer my wife to be accepting of my affection and advances. Playing hard to get makes me feel undesirable to her.
2007-02-12 15:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not mix it up. Don't be too easy, but play hard to get sometimes. Keeps it interesting for both of you.
2007-02-12 15:03:44 · answer #10 · answered by Mike S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋