hi
i have problem with my sister. she's 15 and i am 16. she got very nice body.
The problem is that she wears at home pajamas but without bra and sometimes without panty , and she says "that is more comfortable"...some times she walk from the toilet to her room naked when she has a bath coz she doesnt like changing her clothes in bathroom.
********Is that normal?******
2007-02-12 06:57:07 · 14 answers · asked by \\//H\\// 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes it is normal. No problem with it whatsoever. Myself I sleep naked and also don't like to change in the bathroom so I walk nake to the room.
And I also use at home some wide trousers and no underware. It really is much much more confortable. I understand your sister.
Btw, are you a biiiiiiiit jealous about your sister's body?
You should look at yourself and find out what you like most about it an value it.
If you are 16 you probably have not a bad body at all. Just look at it as you would look at a glass of water when you are thirsty and there is some water in it and you have the possibility to fil it up with more water.
And even if you do not like your body, you are not the one whos opinion is important. Boy's opinion are the ones which count.
If her atitude makes you feel unconfortable you could ask yourself what really makes you to feel like that, and try to deal with it. You are not strangers to each other. I am sure she doesn't do that with strangers at home. It is also her home and why should she feel unconfortable so you could feel confortable.
Like I said, look for the whys and whats and deal with it. You can even ask me or here again, what to do, later, after you find out what makes you so unconfortable, maybe we can give you a good tipp... karlguttendorfATyahoo.co.uk
2007-02-12 07:09:54 · answer #1 · answered by Carlos C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No bra or panties? Maybe if she is wearing something that doesn't make it real obvious, and she doesn't need to tell you! The naked thing? Uh...no. Not at all normal. Unless of course she was raised in a nudist colony or has a creepy thing for her brother! Tell her to get a bathrobe! Or at least put on a towel, how hard is that!
2007-02-12 07:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by Lara S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Heck Yes.
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2007-02-12 07:00:32 · answer #3 · answered by LiL EarlE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you, then tell her. Some people are more comfortable in their skin than others, happy as can be walking around in the buff, but that doesn't mean you have to be witness to it. You should both feel comfortable in your own home, and its obvious you don't, so she should want to make things better for you by covering up.
2007-02-12 07:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by eileezy2002 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She should be more modest in front of her brother. I don't understand why your mother does not say something to her about this. No big deal not wearing her bra and panties under her pajamas but walking around in front of you is like she is an exhibitionist. Tell your mother to explain modesty to her
2007-02-12 07:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
While it's not totally normal, it's not unusual. Some people are like that.
I would definitely tell her that this makes you uncomfortable. Doesn't it?
She's probably really comfortable with her physical image, and there's nothing wrong with that, but she needs to know that modesty is important and you would appreciate it if she'd give you and herself some privacy.
2007-02-12 07:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by whoops! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uh, yeah. Perfectly normal. Just cuz you have a problem with it doesn't mean it's a problem
2007-02-12 07:00:38 · answer #7 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi dude dont worry it happens at your age u can try explaining her ....U can also inform your MOM and telll her to explain it your sister
2007-02-12 07:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by Kals 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is disrespectful and very confident at the same time. however your parents should tell her that is not cool...what if you had friends over?
2007-02-12 07:02:51 · answer #9 · answered by jlcaughlan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh my god, ur facing this problem.nothing wrong with it. explain to ur parents and ur sister...see it if works
2007-02-12 07:19:52 · answer #10 · answered by zara_mini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋