last night me and my bf had sex for the first time, unprotected...he was inside for about a min. im not on my period. he didnt ***. What are the early signs for pregnancy and should i tell my mom??? i already told my best friend but what should i do?? tell my mom? sisters??
2007-02-12 06:35:39 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
First off calm down. You should be fine and from how it sounds it has only been a day. Chances are you are not nor will you become pregnant this time. Semen is the white stuff when a man ejaculates this is where you will find the majarity of the sperm. If he did not ejaculate like it sounds like you are say then you should not be pregnant. However you sound very young and if you are not ready to have children or you are with someone that you are not sure you would want to have children with then you should not be haveing sex. Now don't get me wrong sex is great and it is not just for haveing babies it is also to have fun, but there is always the chance that you will get pregnant and this should be a factor in your mind every time before you do it. With this said you have your own decissions to make but keep in mind that they do not only affect you.
2007-02-12 06:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by InuYasha chic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I doubt you'll know anything so soon. I'm in my late 20's and have 4 children, so I know a "little" about pregnancy. Just wait and see if you start your period. You might have gotten lucky and not have gotten pregnant yet. If you don't start your period by the time you think you should you can always go to the store and buy a cheap pregnancy test. They are all pretty good and pretty accurate. I would at least wait 2 weeks to take one though. Otherwise you can also go to your local planned parenthood office and take a urine test there. Your privacy is protected there. You can also go to google and do a search for early pregnancy signs. Read up as much as you can. Never hurts to be knowledgable on the situation! Don't stress yet. Everything will work out fine! Good Luck!
2007-02-12 06:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by price_n_baok 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, it's probably too early to tell if you are pregnant. Even the home tests won't tell you until right before you miss your period. You don't have to be on your period to get pregnant and it doesn't matter if he ejaculated inside or not (some gets let go before). Don't freak out yet! Give it a couple of weeks and see if you start getting any of these symptoms:
Missed period
Cramping
Swollen and tender breasts
Nausea with or without vomiting
Feel extremely tired
Frequent urination
Then I would take a pregnancy test.
2007-02-12 06:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cannot possibly know if you are pregnant 1 day after intercourse. Seriously. The earliest you could know is about 5 days from now, and even that's pretty sketchy. The chances of you getting pregnant are reduced since he didn't come inside you, but just to be safe, get yourself to Planned Parenthood and ask about some emergency contraception. If you take it in the next day or two, it'll knock down your chances of getting pregnant by around 89%. Get on actual birth control (condoms!) as well.. If you can talk to your Mom or sisters and ask their advice too, that's all to the good. Not knowing your particular situation I can't advise you.
The early signs of pregnancy vary from woman to woman. The big one is missed menstruation, and other popular ones are sore breasts, nausea, and improved sense of smell. Some women don't have any of these.
2007-02-12 06:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by MissA 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are not necessarily pregnant, but you could be. Even if he didn't climax, you can still get pregnant from his pre-***, because sperm is in the "love juices" before his climax (this is why pulling out is such an unreliable method of birth control).
You won't know if you're pregnant for at least a week. You'll need a test from the drugstore, and preferably your doctor as well, to make sure. I strongly recommend going to your doctor, because you need to be tested for STDs and AIDS as well - your boyfriend may claim to be clean and healthy, but he may not know what he is carrying.
Yes, tell your mom and sisters, they are your best source of support and comfort right now. They can help you through whatever the outcome is, and give you good advice. You can also visit your local Planned Parenthood office for good counseling and advice, and learn the importance of birth control and condoms.
2007-02-12 06:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you should do is Relax!!! There is no need to run and tell people this. Wait and if your period is late take a test and then you can worry like you are now. The chances are not great for you getting pregnant if he didnt c*m inside you. Just take a deep breathe and relax. What's done is done, you cant go back and change things so just try and relax.
2007-02-12 07:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Early signs of pregnancy are tender breasts, lower abdomen pain...light of course, but mild crampiness. I would definitely talk to someone about it, but wait until you know for sure...Don't freak out, this kind of thing happens all the time...You can only get pregnant if your ovulating anyway, which is only like 1-2 days out of every month if that, because sometimes women don't ovulate every month. Take a test if you miss your period and go from there. Good luck to you!
2007-02-12 06:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it was last night, go tell your mom to get you the morning after pill as a precaution. You need to get it and take as soon as possible. So, hopefully, you won't have to deal with a pregnancy and hopefully remember to use protection while having sex. Guys have precum and even if he doesn't ejaculate, you can still get pregnant.
2007-02-12 06:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by Groovy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just did it last night you wouldnt even be able to tell if you were or not yet. You will probably have to wait a while before you will know. Sounds like you are excited about the idea that you might be pregnant.
2007-02-12 06:40:25 · answer #9 · answered by shorty 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he didn't ejaculate, you are probably ok, but to be safe, go to a pharmacy and buy a home pregnancy test. Follow the instructions carefully and take the test.
If all is good with the test, just wait until you are next due for your period. If that happens, you're fine. If not, see your doctor straight away.
In any event, don't panic. Accidents do sometimes happen, but you will be ok one way or another.
2007-02-12 06:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋