Me and bf are going to a nudist colony this weekend. It will be people of all ages from what we are told most range from 16-17 all the way to 40's. I think hubby will have a hard on all the time and I know I will glance to many times. Has anyone ever been to one before and how is it there? How do you control the arousal?
2007-02-12 06:33:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In reality the likely-hood of your bf becoming erect is around zero. It's the most asked question by all guys before they go to a nude beach/resort the first time but it simply doesn't happen.
Go and have a great time and I should think within the first 10 minutes you'll have forgotten you're naked.
2007-02-15 22:25:11 · answer #1 · answered by glawster2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nudists range from 1 month old to 100 years old.....depending where you go, there is a better chance most will be over 40.
There are some very important rules of politeness that should be respected....failure to do so could get you kicked out.
- don't stare
- if an erection occurs, hide it, cover it, turn over onto your belly till it goes away, etc.
- Never display an erection openly.....that will definately get your husband in trouble.
Nudist resorts are intended to be non-sexual settings.....so part of what you will realize is that nudity and sexual arousal are not one and the same. The most powerful tool to controling arousal is learning to seperate those two entities. Another useful method is to make sure your husband's member has had all the fun it wants to have in a day....BEFORE you get to the resort.....
2007-02-13 03:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me just say that you've got pretty high expectations of a nudist colony. A nudist colony is a group of people who are comfortable enough to be nude all the time with each other and very FEW of them have terrific bodies. I knew an old guy who was a nudist (never saw him nude, thank goodness) and he was very pudgy and pale. Just the thought of him nude was unappealing. If your bf is looking around, it'll be in amazement at all the flabby people bouncing around. Most likely he'll be very embarrassed.
2007-02-12 14:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by §Sally§ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sally 1590 is absolutely correct. Nudist colonies are not populated with the most attractive people. Just "comfortable" people. It is almost as if the people there are trying to prove to themselves how comfortable they are with themselves. You will rarely see any hunks running around there. I hope you guys have fun though. Good Luck.
2007-02-12 17:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by Oh My! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get to the resort you'll very quickly focus on the fun that you're having and almost forget that you and everyone around you is naked. Don't worry about your boyfriend becoming aroused. Once he gets over the initial "everyone's naked" feeling he'll calm down.
2007-02-15 01:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by spikeit 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it . at all after a time his hardon will go down and you will feel comfortable . its fun and nice and clean and interesting. don't get mad at him for getting a hard on at any time regardless of who he might be looking at . this is a great fun place to be . and you know what the slow dances are a really fun thing to try .
2007-02-16 13:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋