2007-02-12 06:01:54 · 11 answers · asked by andy486 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Find out what it is that she wants or needs you to do to validate her....
That is just how women are....we are detailed about what it is that makes us feel good....
Hearing it does not always made it solidified....
So I say find what it would take for her...and do it....and she will confirm that for you!
2007-02-12 06:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by LIFECOACH 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As almost everyone has already said, actions speak louder than words. You need to show her how you feel. Spontaneous gestures of love and affection will go far. Surprise her with a kiss, a candlelit bubble bath, hold her hand. After we've been in a relationship for a while, we start to take things for granted. We assume our spouse knows how we feel. Sometimes we need to remember little things like spontaneous affection mean a lot.
2007-02-12 14:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't keep my husband off of me and we have been together for years now. I guess it all depends on what you do or don't do that makes her disbelieve you. Perhaps you should start showing her by acting the same way you used to around her. Stop treating her like she's part of the furniture and start showing her how truely special she is. Men are so quick to say things and so slow to show them. Thank you and good luck.
2007-02-12 14:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. You have to show not just tell her. Start getting a sense of humor around her. Tease her by saying things like: come on baby you know I still want you...in a sexy playful voice.
Whatever you do don't give into her pessimism. If you really do still want her you will find a way to let her know. It sounds like she is down on her so help her through it.
2007-02-12 14:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by T-Rex 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Then show her, try something different. Convince her to either tie you up or let you tie her up and worship her. Either way you are either showing ultimate trust or going to give her an evening of intense pleasure. Either way, make sure you let her know how much you still yearn for her.
2007-02-12 14:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by tiemetight814 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a hard time believing my husband when he tells me this but it does make me feel good and I like it better when he shows me more then tell me.
2007-02-12 14:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She is having a low self esteem... do something that will show it to here... write her a letter or something that tells her why you are still attracted to her. Good Luck~
2007-02-12 14:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by A Friend 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You'd think the fact that I wanna do my wife twice a day would be evidence enough, don't you think?
I know what you mean.
2007-02-12 14:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most women are that way. It's our job to keep telling them how we feel.
2007-02-12 14:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
So you are telling us she thinks you are a liar?
2007-02-12 14:55:02 · answer #10 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋