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2007-02-12 05:38:07 · 7 answers · asked by jetjj1 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Sending out signals?
I'm a long-time married woman with four grown children who has begun to feel a little guilty about the men in my life. Although I never intentionally set about to do it, through all the years of my marriage I have had close male friends. I suspect that some, if not all, of them may have wanted more than I could offer. I hardly see myself as a temptress, but I've aways had accomplished, attractive men around me. I don't even use makeup, don't flirt, don't chase guys. Maybe sometimes the boundaries got a little blurred, but I never crossed any. I am not slender---not fat either, but buxom--although I never dress in a slutty fashion. Could I somehow be putting out some kind of vibe that attracts these men? And if so, how do I tone it down?
2007-02-12 05:38:46 · update #1
You know what? I wouldn't worry about it. If you are not cheating on your husband, what is wrong with having attractive, intelligent male friends? I'm not seeing the problem here.
2007-02-12 05:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when a woman is unavailable they become the target of attention. Don't give in and keep your marriage alive, you have done nothing wrong and if it affects the marriage then something has to be done.
Otherwise enjoy the life with your loved one know that you are stronger then those attracted to you.
2007-02-12 16:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by stbill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question for you is this. Is this compromising your relationship with your husband and family? As long as you and they know that there are boundries there, I think having them as friends is harmless. But as soon as you cross the line, you know it means more than just the 2 of you are involved here. if there is too much sexual tention or flirting. Just wear a burka, I know it works for me, LOL. Just kidding.
2007-02-12 13:48:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Say no
It not worth going to hell for 5 min of fun
2007-02-12 13:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the site: www.thesecret.tv and view the film "The Secret".
2007-02-12 14:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by uwaiu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's nothing you can prevent. either dont worry about it and stay true to you man, or lock yourself up and dont let anyone other than your man see you.
2007-02-12 13:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by sydb1967 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fart burp in front of them!
2007-02-12 13:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by jaime m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋