decide what shall i do, i am so confused
2007-02-12 05:38:06 · 38 answers · asked by beer buddy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Choose the girlfriend.... you aren't worthy of a great wife... You'll be doing her a favor.
2007-02-12 05:41:01 · answer #1 · answered by April 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You made solemn promises to your wife. Do they not count for anything? You need an integrity transplant.
Think of it this way - if your girlfriend is encouraging you to betray your wife, how can you be sure that when she is fed up of you, she will not pull the same trick.
Personally I think your wife is amazing giving you the choice, Many women would have slammed the door in your face long before now.
2007-02-12 05:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by stgoodric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh poor you what a dilemma!
You have a wife so why on earth should you need a girlfriend.
Your wife deserves so much better than you,let her go and meet someone who deserves her and will treat her with the respect she deserves.
You shack up with your girlfriend and be miserable for the loss of a great woman-your wife btw.I`d have killed you by now.
2007-02-12 05:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy of what you got, why didnt your girlfriend be your wife in the first place. You need help. Please contact a family counselor. You are lucky that you your wife asked you to choose. You may not be lucky with your girlfriend. and you girl friend is only your girlfriend. Respect you wife and save your marriage. There should never be a third person in your marriage. Please try counseling. Thank you.
2007-02-12 05:46:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why would you have a girlfriend? It seems to me that you probably had something going on with her in the past and your wife is catching on. When I met my husband he had a girlfrind too and I disaprooved of it cause she wanted him to devote time to her. I broke up with him so he had to tell her that I didn't want her in his or my life. I guess the love for me was stronger.... If you love your wife and don;t wanna loose her, you'll do the right thing and get rid of the "friend".....
2007-02-12 06:59:07 · answer #5 · answered by arielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a real sad case you are, needing to fantasise like this, answers must be the nearest you have to someone to talk to far, less a wife and a girlfriend. Anyone else out there getting fed up with this clown? If he posts again why don't we boycott him?
2007-02-12 06:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did u ever get married in the first place if u decided on playing both sides of the fence???? I'm with the person who said go with the girlfriend because your not worthy of having a wife!!! LOOOOOSER!
2007-02-12 06:15:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to think long and hard about this one because what ever descion you make you have to stick with it.there is lots you have to think about for example was your marriage good b4 you met the girlfriend if sowhy did you stray.the grass is not always greener o the other side.your wife must really love you to even give the choice who you want.but at the end of theday follow your heart because u only live once.goodluck people are going to get hurt who ever u choose.please don't play with peoples feelings its wrong and painful.
2007-02-12 06:03:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the girlfriend, then you'll be letting her get on and make a new life with someone decent who makes her happy. Don't hang on to her just because you don't want her to meet anyone else. When your girlfriend becomes your wife, you'll need to go out and get another girlfriend. Then you can have your cake and eat it, like before.
2007-02-12 05:43:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Um, well are you happy with your wife. You couldn't of been if you went out and got a girlfriend. It's a personal choice not for us to decide for you!
2007-02-12 05:42:50 · answer #10 · answered by FuturisticKid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im sorry to say but the best place to turn would the way that your heart ells you to and the way that you think would leed to the best life for you and your wife so you actually need to try and make a decision as soon as possible so no one gets teriblly hurt from it ok
2007-02-12 05:42:31 · answer #11 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋