im 28 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend pressures me in having sex or just plain flat out insult me cuz ill critasize him on his driving or hes eating with his mouth open ect. some times he tells my that hell cheat on me with the grimeyest of all the girls around my house and hell call me a skank and tell me hell get with other girls and tell me go f off and just being plain spiteful and hurtful. after 2 hours of fighting and me crying madly hell realize im pregnant after me reminding him 8 million times. sometimes hell say something bad and ill leave to let him think about why im upset and hell yell to me "you slut your cut *****" when i keep walking hell run after me and say "i love you baby and im so sorry..." then if dont take his apology he'll tell me im cut again. but when were not fighting well be on cloud nine together. i dont know what to do. im 28 weeks pregnant and my daughter dont need feel mommy stressed. but hes my daughters father and i love so much! i dont know what to do
2007-02-12 05:10:14 · 5 answers · asked by Natasha C 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i wouldnt put up with that...theres other guys out there that will take care of u and that baby...i had a 3 year old and pregnant with another whenever i met my husband now so dont say u cant find anyone just because ur pregnant because u can...good luck!
2007-02-12 05:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but he sounds immature and anyone deserves better than that. I could be wrong but he should already have a certain measure of respect for you being that he fathered your first child. Think about it would you want to see your daughter in a relationship like yours when she grows up? If you can honestly answer yes than stick it out if you are thinking with common sense which is NO then get out of that situation. He sounds like a jerk to me and he thinks your not strong enough to go leave him. If he's mean like that to you while your pregnant then how is he treating you when your not pregnant? I ask this question because I know for a fact my husband is more keen and sensitive to my feelings when I'm pregnant I'm talking about daily red carpet treatment. I really feel sorry for you but you need to make the decision and do what's best for you, your daughter and your unborn child. Don't feel like you can't handle living without him because If I was in your shoes he wouldn't have the time to annoy or threaten me he'd be out there working 2 jobs in order to live after I filed child support on him ya know that's still an option. Remember, You are the QUEEN of your castle.
2007-02-12 05:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by missingNYC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's really that abusive brake up with him. If you dont want to consider that an option because he's your daughter's father go to a couple therapy you and him 1 on 1 and try to work it out with a professional. If you cant afford one well, I'm sure that somebody from a church,shelter,helpline etc. will listen. Good Luck and congrats on your baby ! <33 :)
P.S. listen to run away love by Ludacris. I dont think you want your daughter growing up like that.
2007-02-12 08:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by DancingQueen5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will make this simple.
I know you may 'love' this guy, but if you love your child you need to either get out of a relationship like that and not force him/her to be born into chaos and abuse...
OR
Consider giving the baby up for adoption. Adoption is not as terrible as many people may think if you go through the right agency and whatnot. Please look into it.
2007-02-12 07:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by Socially Awkward Penguin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please consider giving this baby up for adoption. If you wish to stay in abusive relationship, that's your decision. You do not have the right to make a child go through this too.
2007-02-12 05:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by ladywildfireok 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋