had another baby with another girl and name it after him i feel like i am going crazy he hurt me really bad he keep tell me he is sorry all i want is for him to get out my life
2007-02-12 05:05:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
OMG we are different people who went through the EXACT same thing. I am so sorry for your lost. I also had a MC in September 2005, and I can say I know your hurt, but be strong, it will all get better as time passes. As for that no good, sorry excuse for a man you're talking about, all I can say is try your best to leave him alone. I have been in that situation also. I know it may seem as though you can't live without him and you find yourself giving him chance after chance because you love him. Well, just pray for strength to bring you through this. Cling to your family and close friends, and I promise you will get stronger everyday. You don't need a man like that. If he did something like this once, he will do it again. I KNOW!! I'VE BEEN THERE! If you feel like chatting or sending an e-mail I'm here. I'll say a prayer of strength for you. Good Luck! shannontoney1@yahoo.com
2007-02-12 05:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by Shannonsfirst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then get him out of your life, you get to make the decisions about who you are with. I know it's devastatingly painful but keep your family and friends around you, work on yourself, take on a new hobby or class, and develop yourself enough so that you can have more self esteem and know that you don't need him.
In the future you will look back at this situation and be proud of yourself for being so strong. And you'll get a better relationship with a man who truly respects you someday too.
As far as the miscarraige goes, it is very common and does not at all mean that you will not be able to have children in the future. I'm a labor and delivery nurse and somewhere around 50% of my patients who come in and have healthy babies have had miscarraiges in the past. I also had two miscarraiges before I had my two completely healthy children.
2007-02-12 13:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by tatertotsmommie2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry for your loss and what you have to go through. At a time when you should be healing physically, mentally, and emotionally then you get another blow to make matter even worse. I'm a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, you were too good for the loser and the girl he got pregnant let her deal with the loser as you find time to heal. Seek your inner peace and beauty and you will find that time heals all wounds.
2007-02-12 13:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by missingNYC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey I am so very sorry for your loss,and I know you do not want to hear this but you have got to get rid of him.You need healing and positive things in your life and he is not supportive or caring toward you at all if he is doing the things you listed. You need to get busy focus on you ...find the thing that make you happy and be done with the things that don't.Best of wishes for you sweetie.
2007-02-12 13:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by stegall_sherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really sorry to hear that. And you are right you need to get this jerk out of your life, I know it´s hard sometimes but it´s for the best. Loose all contact with him, keeping in touch is the worst thing you can do.
Good luck....
2007-02-12 13:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by Ladybird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then cut him out of your life completely.. If you and him aren't having a baby together.. don't dwell on it, take this as an opportunity to meet new people. You have your whole life to have children and fall in love.. Why not just have fun?
2007-02-12 13:15:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him get out of your life, he seems like an asshole, I am sorry for your loss but maybe it was a sign. He probably would not have been reliable.
2007-02-12 13:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by earthstarlatin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soooo sorry hear that you have had a miscarraige. I have had 5. It may have been a blessing in disguise. Now you won't have to have him in your life forever. Kick him to the curb and let the other woman deal with his cheating ways. You'll find someone better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-12 13:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by princess 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
sorry about your loss. And as far as he goes kick him out your life for ever tell him to take that im sorry crap and shove it where the sun don't shine.
2007-02-12 13:16:13 · answer #9 · answered by everlasting_matchstick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about your loss. Just write him off and leave him alone. You do not need him. Good luck
2007-02-12 13:18:51 · answer #10 · answered by doodersmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋