My husband is 49 yrs old and is a recovering alcaholic/pot user he has been clean for more that 3yrs now, over the last year or so I have noticed some strange things, ie joinging chatrooms for people looking to hook up sexually, recently he has been chatting iwith a women online who only lives about 1hrs away, yesterday she sent him a very personal e-mail card thanking him for his wonerfreindship, she signed it with about 10 kisses. I confronted him but he said there was nothing to worry about she was someone he met online in passing and did not expect card like that, he did msn messager her telling her not to contact him again, but was that because I stood beside him and told him to do so??? what shoul I think
2007-02-12 04:42:45 · 8 answers · asked by topside 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok I now found out that he is a memeber of a dating sight , I just joined it so I could e-mail him and see if he bites. also guess who is now back on his msn friend list under another name. the fool does`t realize that her pic comes up when she logs on. do i now have enough proof that he is at least thinking of cheating
2007-02-12 14:28:36 · update #1
I think he's traded one addiction for another.
2007-02-12 04:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut instinct.You know him better than anyone.Do you trust him? I guess not otherwise you wouldn't be asking the question. If it were me I would be very suspicious.Do you use the computer? Check the history. If you can't then learn, At least it may put your mind at rest.At worst you can have some fun and chat for yourself. Good Luck.I don't personally believe in mid life crises. Thats just an excuse for unacceptable behaviour usually from men.
2007-02-12 04:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just because he tells this one to not contact him again, doesn't mean there will not be another one. mid life crisis just means they are immature and don't want to deal with the responsibilities of life anymore, they want to go back to a younger time where things may have been easier in their lives. they are immature.what are u going to do when the next woman pops up?
2007-02-12 07:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, mid life crisis is when you sit around thinking that you've done nothing in this world. Nothing good to leave your kids, nothing that would make your mark so that you can be remembered or in other words, you're a flop of your own existence.
2007-02-12 05:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how disrespectful! why would he want to gain a relationship with someone on line..when he already has you..i am at a loss for an answer for you..Get rid of him..or he'll end up driving you to drink
2007-02-12 04:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you think? he sounds like a real Gem!! he is looking for some action!! if i were you i would consider DIVORCE!!
2007-02-12 04:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by notyochic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should keep an eye on him.
2007-02-12 04:46:49 · answer #7 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, IT IS CALLED BEING A TOTAL ***. DUMP HIM. DON'T MAKE EXCUSES FOR HIS CHEATING. BECAUSE THAT IS PLAIN AND SIMPLY WHAT IT IS CALLED THAT HE IS DOING.
2007-02-12 05:03:39 · answer #8 · answered by openminded 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋