My ex and I have been together off & on for 6 years. We broke up last year and he dated another girl. We got back together & moved in together. I found out that ex - he threw up in my face while dating her called him at New Years. He know how I felt about her and I kicked him out. We stayed away from each other, but now
he says he regrets ever meeting her, he loves me,im the onlyone if he had the $ hed buy a ring. Is that enough to go back to him? I truly dont believe he was messing with her but it just hurt my feelings.
I have started going out and meeting guys, do you think he really loves me or is scared I am geting away? He siad I dont understand how you can hang out with guys sooo soon?
2007-02-12 04:24:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girl I know you've heard a leopard can't change his spots. And yes he is afraid that you are getting away and you are!!! Hurray for you! What's a ring gonna change?Why would you want to keep feeling this way,could you every really trust him again? Honestly? He made his choice about ya'll's relationship a long time ago,if you weren't important enough to him then, you certainly aren't now.Whatever he says about the other guys is just something eles to make you feel sorry for him,mind control,and the tears don't mean anything either.Dont be fooled and remember that this happened for a reason and this experience is YOUR best teacher.Go be happy, be with someone who will respect you as a person and not just toss you to the side untill your needed again.
2007-02-12 05:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sidetracked0260 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A phone call could mean nothing....on the other hand it could be a sign. I say stay single and continue to meet and date other guys. Six years is a long time to be tied up with someone and still have stress and strain. I think he just doesn't want to be alone and you have always made it easy for him to come back. Don't fall for the "if I had enough $ i'd get you a ring" trick. He doesn't really love you...you can do better. He sounds like a loser.
2007-02-12 12:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by answergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a 6 year relationship ((on and off?)) and he dates another girl? So Why exactly is it that he doesnt understand how you can hang with guys so soon? He did it right? He may love you and he may want to be with you, but he cannot get mad because you are only meeting guys. He dated someone!
If you decide to take him back tell him you want to pick out the ring
2007-02-12 12:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by lady_profit08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it. 6 years is enough time for anyone to decide whether or not someone would like to attempt being serious, etc with someone else. Now the boy seems to not have made this decision, based on what you said about his behaviour, and your on off relationship.
The thing is, no one will truly ever change. And the fact that he's been at it (on again off again with you) for 6 years says more that he would not change. Period. So, why the sudden "sweetness"?
It's because you're meeting new guys. Guys are territorial. He sees you as his "property" and basically, so long as you just be on your own, he'll just take you for granted. When there's someone else who threaten his supremacy on this particular "area", he would fight to try to maintain his reign.
The trick here is to find someone who would fight for you and not take you for granted, even when you're just hanging out with him and not going to threaten his... ownership.
2007-02-12 12:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by babyLemon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems as though he didnt waste any time finding someone new.. He is just jealous because u are moving on and and u are happy.. If u do decide to take him back dont let him give that ring.. make it wait awhile and see how things progress between the both of u.. U really have to know for yourself that this is what u really want
2007-02-12 12:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...he doesn't understand how you can go with other guys so soon? Excuse me? Didn't he go with someone else? He's trying to keep you on the back burner but keep his options open in case something better comes along. Kick his sorry butt to the curb and you go out with whomever you choose, honey! Don't look back, this guy is a loser!
2007-02-12 12:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just because she called him you're mad? um....that should make you feel you got a good one that others want....but he should not take her calls anymore. running into her and saying hi politely is one thing but taking calls is another. relax. don't be so critical....would you want to be held under such a high powered microscope? if you are dating and seeing others so easily and so soon then maybe you should scrap this alltogether....
2007-02-12 12:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by igot_terminal_uniqueness 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, she calls him. (something he cannot control)
And you kick him out of the house?
Why are you with a man you obviously do not trust?
2007-02-12 12:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not prince charming, there are other relationships out there waiting. Move on!
2007-02-12 12:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by Clark in the City 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋