it would be ok, who is right me or my wife and is she being selfish for not letting my girl move in with us?
2007-02-12 04:21:42 · 51 answers · asked by beer buddy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
keep it zipped up. watch tv instead
2007-02-12 04:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I must agree with you on this one. I think she is being a little selfish here and not thinking about your needs, only her own. Some people will only see things from their narrow perspective.
Perhaps you should try to express your needs in terms that appeal to their own selfishness. For example I would mention that the housework would in fact be reduced as there will would be two women to look after 10 people instead of 1 woman looking after six. Let her do the maths ...
You could also try to explain that if you the girlfriend moved in then you will have more money to spend on her and the kids as you will not have spend money on transport etc.
I hope that putting things this way may have an effect.
Good Luck!!
2007-02-12 04:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by Edward 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has got to be a wind up. I visualise a 16yearsold boy
sitting at the computer thinking up a question that could possibly
to get us going!
For if this question is true - what culture do you belong to?
Many cultures do have more than one wife, so perhaps I
should not be judgemental.
If you are the average Joe - then I think its whats known as
'wanting your cake and eat it'. So you know my answer has
got to be YOU ARE THE SELFISH ONE!!!
Make your mind up what you want - best thing move out
and let the woman and all the kids just look forward to your
visits.
2007-02-12 04:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a mormon? Whether you are or not-how wrong you are to have a wife and then add on having a girlfriend! It is wrong also for the children to see you doing this. You are not setting a very good example for them. Do you remember what marriage is about? Committment to the ONE person? That is why married people make a "cute couple"-it means two people-no girlfriend/boyfriend mixed in there as well. Please, give up your girlfriend-asap-and stay with your wife and six children. Please grow up-be a man-not a boy who wants to be self-centered.
2007-02-12 04:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not.. if i had six kids i would love to have an extra person around the house helping out..and if your wife and girlfriend both live with you then you would be home more often right?..whatever
2007-02-12 04:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! Are you serious? Cheater! You're cheating and your wife won't let your girlfriend live with the two of you? Wow, this is amazing that this is even a question. Is your wife being selfish? Hell no!!!! Your wife needs to wise up and leave your sorry @ss.
2007-02-12 04:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dude... i don't know if you are just kidding here, but not many people in society would condone this type of behavior, so if you are looking for some one to pat you on the back and swoon over how cool you are, its probably not gonna happen.
i think you are a desrespectful, selfish, piggish, man whore, and i do not condone your behaviors. i think your wife should take you for whatever she can and the six kids too, and go far far away from someone who would make her feel so low.
then you can go make pretend house with your whore girlfriend and her three kids.
♥
2007-02-12 04:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ummm can you say Jerry Springer? Damn, seriously man, you have issues and you probably need help. The one who is being selfish is YOU. If you want to live with your girl, as you put it, then be prepared for the massive child support your *** is gonna be paying. Seems to me like your wife is gonna kick your punkass to the curb soon. Good for her.
2007-02-12 04:37:55 · answer #8 · answered by Azaryel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I do envy you!
I always wanted to have six children + a broken toilet seat!!!
Do you have one of the latter by any chance??? If so, consider yourself a lucky guy, and do not care about your selfish wife!
2007-02-12 04:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
you want to move your girlfriend into the house with you and your wife? are you completely crazy? you are pushing it don't you think she is your wife that is her house not hers yours and you girls. you need to get yourself out of one of those relationships, (the one that you are not married to ) and take care of your own kids and let that other woman man take care of his kids, oh do not even think that she doesn't have a man on the side because she does. what do you think she is doing when you are not around. get a real life and man up to your responsibilities.
2007-02-12 04:34:03 · answer #10 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up - If you are for real the name Beer Buddy just sums up the gruesome picture I have of you in my mind. It is either wishful thinking on your behalf or the women are really pathetic and an insult to the famale population that they would give you the time of day.
2007-02-12 06:11:18 · answer #11 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋