We're both girls and for a while it seemed like both of us were bi. We cybered and would kiss each other, but only on the cheek or neck. We held hands all the time too and one of our friends actually thought we were dating. Then I told her that I thought I liked her and nothing changed. We even went to a halloween party as husband and wife and everyone thought we were together. But then I told her I was bi and started dating a girl and it all stopped, she even ignored me for a while. She also started making sure everyone knew she was straight as a ruler. We were talking about some girl that we both knew that is bi and she said "I'm happy for her that she knows her feelings at this young"(she's 16 I'm 15) and I said that it's kind of dumb if you know your bi or gay to hide it and she kind of just looked away and kind of had a guilty look on her face. So I really don't know, if you guys could give me some guidance it would be great.
2007-02-12 04:08:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hmm... I think either she is but is ashamed of it... or she just likes you as a friend but is very close to you. I have never held hands with a girl except my cousins and I have kissed girls on the cheek but I'm straight. It is her decision if she wants to be straight. You should ask her how she feels about you as more than a friend and if she doesn't move on and let her know you still want to be friends.
2007-02-12 04:26:36 · answer #1 · answered by Catwoman 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me that someone is a little jealous. She probably is just very close to you and in fact does not want to be a lesbian with you, at this moment. She is just feeling hurt that you found someone else to spend time with, doing the same things that you two used to do together. She is just jealous and hurt. If she is a true friend she will come around eventually. If she is a true lesbian she will tell all when she is ready. Just be kind to her, and give her some space for now.
2007-02-12 06:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by rchl782 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 14:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend, of course, needs to make decisions and choices regarding her own life. By adding pressure upon your friend, you may be doing her a disservice. Let her make choices for herself and trust that she is being honest with you. Allow her space to be who she is. Mutual respect is the key to good relationships..
2007-02-12 05:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that you want a close friendship like you used to have. Tell her that you don't like how things have become between you two. Then ask her why. Let her tell you herself.
2007-02-12 06:14:04 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she says she is straight, then she is straight and it is not your place to go snooping or digging to find out if she really is bi or gay
its her business and she will share her true feelings when she is ready to if she is in fact bi or gay
2007-02-12 04:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by Huh? 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's honestly not your place to try and dig and find out if she is straight or bisexual. Just wait and find out, because..to be honest, it's none of your business.
2007-02-12 04:43:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. whatever her problems are she's making it clear that she doesn't want to discuss them with you.
2007-02-12 05:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is inherently bisexual
2007-02-12 04:11:43 · answer #9 · answered by Bob Danvers-Walker 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋