Yesterday I was with my husband and we had our 1 to 2 minute moment. Later that day he mentioned to me (he said he was joking) that when he "comes" he can no longer feel anything. Is it true that the women after many births loosens from down there? Or is it my belief that maybe he had a little rondayvu and she was tight? Not that im saying he cheats often or i'ved known of him cheating, but it just brought that to my mind, you know. Why would he say that?
2007-02-12 04:03:49 · 13 answers · asked by Funnie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first of all if it was just 1-2 minutes, he has issues. second, that is not true, i have 3 kids and you do not loose the pleasure, you learn how to manipulate it and use it to your benefit. third, what does that have to do with him cheating - i didn't get it
2007-02-12 04:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by yes, it's me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would say something like that because he is a typical, insensitive macho. Even after multiple births the vagina goes back to its original shape and form. It does not become loose. It does not become big and gaping. It does not develop any type of callous. If he can no longer feel anything when he comes, then, that is his problem, not yours. Next time he tells you that, just tell him that from the constant 1 to 2 minute
sessions, his penis has worn thin and you can hardly feel it!
2007-02-12 12:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sense tells you that you are not the same after shoving children through the birth canal than you were before.
But women are designed for childbirth!
Tell your husband it may be HIM not you that is causing him to feel the way he does. And if it's only taking 1-2 minutes, tell him you'd be happy to feel ANYTHING.
2007-02-12 12:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by weddrev 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ME myself have had 3 children and I have never heard of anything quite like that.. Ask him y would he say such a thing like that and tell him besides if he quit being a 2 minute brother he might just end up feeling something..........
2007-02-12 12:08:48 · answer #4 · answered by huddlestony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't lose the pleasure feeling, however we do have physical issues after giving birth. You will have to do kagel exercises to tighten your vaginal walls. Your hormones also decrease, especially if you breast feed. So you need to eat healthy to allow your body to regenerate the hormones that goes along with sex.
2007-02-12 12:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by T W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is very possible....just the thought of having another kid is enough to say ick, and of course the kids in general are a handful. So the sexual desire wanes in a woman.
2007-02-12 12:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do some pelvic excesses it won't even effect you any of it the pleasure will also be enormous and great for him too. so Squeeze and keep squeezing those pelvic muscles and you will reap the benefits.
2007-02-12 12:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by sarell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must feel something or he wouldnt ***. anyway he's opening up to you so dont attack him or make him regret ever telling you how he feels. we (women) always think theres another woman and that will ruin a marriage especially if he's not doing anything wrong.
2007-02-12 12:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you dont lose sexual feeling. I have on child and everything seem fine with myself and my husband (knock on wood).
2007-02-12 12:08:30 · answer #9 · answered by alex77055 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's ridiculous! I have had 4 children and sex is the best it's ever been! Ask him why he would say that - communication, hello?
2007-02-12 12:08:19 · answer #10 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋