2007-02-12 03:57:52 · 32 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes, it should. After you have tied the knot, what better way to celebrate that night than to have sex together for the first time.
2007-02-12 04:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hell NO!!!!!!!!! Sex should be enjoyed by those whose are emotionally ready and those who are in a comitted relationship. We all were created as sexual beings and the truth is not every will get married, But we all have sexual desires and urges that needs to be satisfied and to do so we need to have some very good, safe and satisfying sex. But if you are a christian, keep your self for marriage and don't go against your religion
2007-02-12 04:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by Alise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GOD does, and He's the One that created us and MARRIAGE. Marriage creates a protection for all people involved including the children. Having a secure relationship/friendship in the 1st place, then the intimate part of the relationship comes in when the respect and committment is already built and established.Trust & Communication.You couldn't be non-compatible that point.
And then...I've been known to I slip and land on a penis.
2007-02-12 04:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by BamCaliFlaVa 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does that really still happen? In todays world how can that possibly still happen? I guess if thats what you want then more power to you. I personally dont think that sex is that important that you need to wait until marriage. I mean come on, its sex. You dont have to love or marry someone just to have sex.
2007-02-12 04:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by matt_archbold2002 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, because if you are not sexually compatible that can cause huge problems. It is up to each couple really, but having been a virgin bride and living through a totally nightmare ish marriage where we just did not click, then I would have to say from experience that if I had slept with him before then there is no way we would have got married.
2007-02-12 04:03:40 · answer #5 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that stems from your faith. Religiously speaking it's a covenant that should be shared with only your wife or husband.
Outside of that, it's great to share yourself with someone else, before or after marriage. I don't think you should be sharing with multiple people all willy nilly, but I think you should enjoy it.
I've found that sex is so beautiful. I'm married now, but I've had sex prior to marriage. For me, I had to be in a committed relationship to give it up, but I don't have many regrets.
SAFETY FIRST
2007-02-12 04:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by T W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. I mean, I didn't get married until I was 31 years old. Is it realistic to expect a living, breathing, human being to abstain from something natural like sex for 30 years?
2007-02-12 04:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't think you need to be married to have sex. In fact, I think it's a bad idea to wait for marriage. What if you get married, and you find that you are not sexually compatible with your spouse? Realistically, sex is very important in a relationship. Do you want to resent your spouse for your whole marriage because they can't please you, or be resented because you can't please them? Cause after marriage, you'll be stuck with it. Also, I'm just not religious. I personally don't see the point in waiting.
2007-02-12 04:17:06 · answer #8 · answered by pisceswoman87 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you reserved sex for marriage no-one would ever get any
2007-02-12 04:00:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think so sex is so overrated now theses days and thats why u see alot of ppl end up with a std and alot of women are having babys we were brought up too wait untill we get married to that speical person we have spent are hole life with that person but if i could take back what i did back in the day and still a virgin yes i would wait for it to happend with the right person plain and simple
2007-02-12 04:03:27 · answer #10 · answered by LifesJourney 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What better way to test and see if he really loves you. If he does he will wait.
have you ever heard of a princess falling pregnant before marriage ? Are you a princess or a pheasant. Do you want roses and a beautiful wedding or a roll in the hay ?
2007-02-12 04:14:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋