Is it bad to have sex during pregnancy? Please Help?

Question

Every time I have sex it burns for some reason but after sex is gonne and I was wondering if any pregnant women had any of this symptoms. Please help?

Answer 1

it usually is not a problem and sometimes it is better. you sound like you are having a problem. it could be lack of lube or a real health problem. if lube is not the problem,discuss it with your doctor.

Answer 2

I never had any of those, but be mindful of what trimester you're in. Check with your doctor to see if you might have a yeast infection - common during pregnancy even if you've never had them before or will never have them after.

But no, it is not a bad thing to have sex during pregnancy. Be sure your mate is gentle, and when you start to 'bulge' a little (or a lot - lol) be sure to use pillows if you need them and have a comfortable position. Especially it might be hard for him to be the one 'on top' - be sure you consider the amount of pressure being added to your body. But a simple position switch and things should be fine.

Sex during the 3rd trimester is hard - not gonna lie to you there. And once your cervix dilates - your ob/gyn should be able to tell you if it has or not when the time is right - then you cannot have sex anymore, or take a bath. No fluids should enter the area, if you know what I mean.

Answer 3

No it is actually very healthy for couples to maintain a sex life while pregnant unless there are complications in your pregnancy and your doctor advises against it. The next time you go to the doctors bring up the burning you may have an infection. Or try using a lubricant to see if that helps.

Answer 4

It's not bad to have sex during pregnancy unless your doctor has advised against it. It's usually bad for certain high risk pregnancy such as pre-eclampsia (sp?). Notify your doctor of the burning. It may be an infection. Because your hormones are elevated, pregnancy can cause the natural pH in your vagina to become unbalanced. It's easily treatable.

Answer 5

Better check with the doc just in case it's a yeast infection or something else. Unless he tells you sex is a no-no, if you are comfortable with it go for it! Try some lubes and see if it helps. You have increased blood flow in that area right now, and that could be the culprit.

Answer 6

There is no reason to change or alter your sexual activity during pregnancy unless your doctor advises otherwise. Intercourse or orgasm during pregnancy will not harm your baby, unless you have a medical problem. Remember that your baby is well protected in your uterus by the amniotic fluid that surrounds him or her.

Your doctor may recommend not having intercourse early in pregnancy if you have a history of miscarriages. Intercourse also may be restricted if you have certain complications of pregnancy, such as pre-term labor or bleeding. You may need to ask your doctor to clarify if this means no penetration, no orgasms, or no sexual arousal, as different complications may require different restrictions.

How Can I Stay Comfortable During Intercourse?

As your pregnancy progresses, changing positions may become necessary for your comfort. After the fourth month of pregnancy a woman may notice feeling dizzy or nauseated while lying flat on her back. This is related to the weight of the growing uterus pressing on major blood vessels. Positions may need to be altered at this time.

A water-based lubricant may be used during intercourse if necessary.

During intercourse, you should not feel pain. During orgasm, your uterus will contract. If you have any contractions that are painful or regular, please contact your doctor. Also, discontinue intercourse and call your doctor immediately if you have heavy vaginal bleeding or if your water breaks (nothing should enter the vagina after your water breaks).

Talking to your partner about how you are feeling about sex and any concerns you have will help you stay comfortable. Also, encourage your partner to communicate with you, especially if you notice changes in your partner's responsiveness. Communicating can help you both better understand your feelings and desires.

Will My Desires Change?

It is common for your desires to be different now that you are pregnant. Changing hormones cause some women to experience an increased sex drive during pregnancy, while others may not be as interested in sex as they were before they became pregnant.

During the first trimester, some women commonly lose interest in sex because they are tired and uncomfortable, while other women's desires stay the same.

I Don't Feel Like Having Sex. What Should I Do to Keep my Partner Happy?

If your doctor has limited your sexual activity, or if you are not in the mood for intercourse, remember to take time for intimacy with your partner. Being intimate does not require having intercourse -- love and affection can be expressed in many ways.

Remind yourselves of the love that created your developing baby. Enjoy your time together. You can take long romantic walks, enjoy candle-lit dinners or give each other back rubs.

How Soon Can I Have Sex After my Baby Is Born?

In general, you can resume sexual activity when you have recovered, when your bleeding has stopped, and when you and your partner feel comfortable.

Your doctor may recommend that you wait until after your first postpartum doctor appointment before having intercourse with your partner.

After pregnancy, some women notice a lack of vaginal lubrication during intercourse. A water-based lubricant may be used during intercourse to decrease the discomfort of vaginal dryness.

Women who only feed their babies breast milk experience a delay in ovulation (when an egg is released from the ovary) and menstruation. But ovulation will occur before you start having menstrual periods again, so remember that you can still become pregnant during this time. Follow your doctor's recommendation on the appropriate method of birth control to use.

Answer 7

i had the same problem early on in my pregnancy. except mine came with very sever itching too. my doc said it was nothing to worry about. that area is very sensitive and it's even worse when you are pregnant. if you are using any type of lubrication, that could be the cause also.

Answer 8

talk to your doctor, sex is fine during pregnancy unless (like me) you have complications and the dr warns against it. better to find out if you are experiencing burns.

Answer 9

absolutley ma'am you take it to the top!!! i ahev had 5 children and hot sex during every last one you go to town and don't worry about anything. i read that oral, annal and even rough sex is 100% safe unless **you have unusual bleeding or pains then, logically go to the doctors, other than that, good luck!!!

Answer 10

it could be because you're not properly lubricated down there so you might want to look into using some. if it still burns then i would consult my ob/gyn.