I just found out that the wife of my boyfriends best friend has been sexually harrasing my boyfriend.
My boyfriend denies it, but I know that it is a fact. I don't now if he is lying to me cause he doesnt want to make a big deal of it, and he is trying to help the woman in her habit of harrasing men or is because he is planning in moving further. They are talking to each other everyday.
Should I notify my boyfriend's friend on what is going on?
Im confused and dont know what to do.
2007-02-12 03:54:26 · 9 answers · asked by confused head 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
um... they talk to each other every day? You have to sit down and have a SERIOUS talk with your boyfriend. Why does he talk to her every single day? This is not acceptable behavior. Tell him what you have heard and confront him (calmly) about the fact that he responds to her!!!!! Dump him if his answers are not acceptable. You're worth more. It may be hard, but you deserve better. Every human does.
Good Luck!!
2007-02-12 03:59:38 · answer #1 · answered by KB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you have your facts right. If he's lying to you about this, what else has he lied about? I would absolutely confront him about this. Don't give him the out that he's trying to keep it low keyed. If that's the truth, then he would want to distance himself from this lady. He may also like the attention he's getting. If you two have a good relationship, then your telling him that you don't like it and it makes you uncomfortable, then he should back away from her. Otherwise, this may be the writing on the wall for the two of you. I wouldn't say anything to the friend, unless he's also a good friend of yours. You'll end up looking like a shrew who's just over sensitive and is trying to be controlling. Good luck.
2007-02-12 12:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might notify your boyfriends friend, just so he can keep an eye on it as well. Then it will be easier to see if something more is going on. It might make it tense between your boyfriend and his friend though and you probably don't want that. Just try to make him understand that it is not just your boyfriend you two are watching, you are watching his wife as well. Don't place blame on either party until you know the truth.
2007-02-12 12:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by Gina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have evidence because you say you know for a fact, then you should confront everyone, especially the girl who is doing that. Then go to the husband and let him know what is going on, he shouldnt be in the dark.
2007-02-12 11:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by alex77055 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you've witnessed something first hand, you don't KNOW anything for a fact.
If you don't trust your bf, it has nothing to do with this other woman. If you think your bf is cheating on you, leave him.
2007-02-12 11:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume he is a big boy and can handle this on his own. Best if you stay out of it.
2007-02-12 11:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you just said to us... that will help you have nothing to hide just be open and it will be for the better
2007-02-12 11:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by juanramoz2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is talking to her every day then it is not harassment.
2007-02-12 11:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by pretty face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it....let him handle it
2007-02-12 11:58:03 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋