im 20 an im a little fat im dark brown in complexion i have short hair . im about 5 feet tall and im very shy. i hate when i would go to school and all the prettier girls get all the nice boys
2007-02-12 03:46:51 · 12 answers · asked by beautiful carribean princess 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
im sorry, but please ignore all the above comments....we dont live in a special little world where confidence and being yourself will score you a hot guy
if you are 5 feet tall and fat....you need to lose some weight....its as simple as that
no guy wants the girl who is as wide as she is tall
the dark brown complexion isnt a big deal and unless your hair is all butch...then the short hair shouldnt make a difference
i hate to be so blunt....but i figured a realistic answer was what you are looking for
personality will only get you so far and guys dont initially notice girls because of their personality.....its looks and thats how it goes
2007-02-12 03:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by Huh? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You gotta make yourself stand out. If you think its a image thing you can fix it. You mention that your a little on the heavy side. Wear darker colors to give you a slimming effect. Try to stay away from white. Teal or Aqua looks great on dark brown tones. Wear heels or kittens (to give you a sexy look). Slap on lip gloss and a little makeup and mascara and call it a day. 1-2-3, ABC. Simple as that. Sounds like u got a tad bit of self-esteem like myself but I try to make it work. Just be yourself... And guys like girls for different reasons... your still young hun... don't rush it .k
2007-02-12 04:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by NicOOd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attractiveness does not come when one is physically beautiful - if she's tall, fair or slim.
To attract a guy, all you need to do is BE CONFIDENT ALWAYS!
Trust me, confidence shows. If you are being confident, strong and sociable in public, men would get impressed instantly.
To start with, you may take up speaking skills or practice with yourself looking at the mirror. You may also want to read up on self-help books to boost your inner esteem and confidence.
One don't need to show skin and flesh and wear tons of make up oto stand out and look beautiful. When one does that, she's attracting the wrong guy for the wrong reasons.
Attract him with your attitude, and he may be yours forever as it's the heart and character he sees in you, NOT your physical beauty alone..
But physical beauty is also the plus point as the first impression can be the lasting and best impression!
What you need to do is just groom yourself to be neat and have a pleasant personality. You don't need to go for a makeover to seem gorgeous, but may be helpful to boost your self-esteem and confidence instantaneously!!
Remember, you have confidence, you have it all!
All the best!
2007-02-12 03:59:59 · answer #3 · answered by raziea06 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may want to lose some weight, at least in the waist area. And dark skin is beautiful as long as you flatter it by leaving your eyes, brows, and hair dark- no bleaching or weaves. Short hair can look fine as long as it's feminine and not "butch". Here are some examples of sexy feminine short hairstyles:
http://home.hiwaay.net/~oliver/ddport1.jpg
http://www.resmusica.com/images/naxos_eartha_kitt.jpg
http://artsedge.kennedy-center.org/exploring/harlem/images/faces/hall_150.jpg
http://content.answers.com/main/content/wp/en/thumb/4/47/180px-Kitt.jpg
2007-02-12 06:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to wear soft, feminine clothing that matches your personality. However, don't think that changing your style will help you in the department of men, you'll need to try to become more confident and outspoken. Find something you love to do (ex. acting, singing, painting) and engage yourself in it. If you're sure about something in your life it'll make guys find you more attractive.
If you want to stand out, go for bright colors and bold prints, but only wear one at a time.
2007-02-12 03:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by LC 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try and have a bit of self confidence. If you are shy try and be more outgoing. Your problem my not be your looks or weight, but rather that noone notices you because you are so quiet and a wallflower.
2007-02-12 03:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by lovednotspoiled 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
confidence is the key. smile, be nice to everyone and talk a bit more. you mentioned that you were shy, i used to be shy too but i started going to parties with my friends and as soon as i got into high school, nobody knew that i used to be a "shy girl" anymore.
2007-02-12 03:50:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you have having a little confidence problem, i think the best way to solve that is with sexy underwear! go out and buy some SEXY underwear, and matching bras...so that you feel sexy. and you are the only one who knows what you are wearing. i promise it will lighten your mood!
also when i am having a bad day, i like to buy shoes. shoes are sexy no matter what size you are. sp get yourself some cute shoes and flaunt them!!
2007-02-12 03:57:40 · answer #8 · answered by <3 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hold your head up high--get your hair done,put a smile on your face,and stop worrying so much:)
2007-02-12 03:50:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just by you,r self and feel you,r beautiful a special
2007-02-12 03:57:38 · answer #10 · answered by sue i 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋