i just discovered that my husband has been chatting with a woman online, she is part of his msn messanger. she sent him and e-mail card saying how she was thinking of him and that she is enjoying their new freindship. plus it was singed with a hell of alot of kisses. when i spoke to him about it he made like it was not big deal and he was suprised she sent him such a card. what should I think of all this. as my first marraige ended because of cheating
2007-02-12 03:39:14 · 10 answers · asked by topside 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
by the way forgot to mention this is not the first time something like this happened. Last year I caught him going on websites looking for discreat encounters. he also claimed then that he was just curious to see what was out there
2007-02-12 03:52:20 · update #1
Sounds like history is repeating...
2007-02-12 03:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there is such a thing as non-sexual cheating so if your husband is a smart man he will cut this relationship off. If he wants a on line relationship, start one of your own and send him one with lots of hugs and kisses.
2007-02-12 11:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have 8 IM friends who are women. I tell them all up front that I am married to a wonderful woman. I enjoy chatting and am a good conversationalist. There's nothing more to it.
Don't accuse until you know what you are talking about.
2007-02-12 11:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plz tell ur husband clearly what he is doing to u is completely decieving u .Whatever excuses he say iam sure he wouldn't like if u did the same thing.He will clearly understand.So talk to him and voice ur opinion
2007-02-12 11:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's full of sh*t. Why would he want to "see what's out there"? Remind him that he's married.
There's nothing wrong with chatting in and of itself. It all depends on the content of the chat. But it sounds to me like there's more going on there that you need to get to the bottom of.
2007-02-12 11:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His only comment was he was surprised at the e-card? How about "I will break it off right now". Tell him, he ends it or he can leave.
2007-02-12 11:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK him not to chat with her anymore if this bothers u....if he complys all is fine...if he does not then I think at that time u have something to worry about....remember chatting is not having sex!
2007-02-12 11:45:34 · answer #7 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly we know what struly up in our heart as soon as we find stuff like that. it's your decision to believe or ignore your heart. don't let uyour past make up your future though.
2007-02-12 11:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs.Vick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look out he may cheat like your ex
2007-02-15 21:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
321 poof he is gone.
2007-02-12 11:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋