2007-02-12 03:28:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think it would have to be a mutual decision for that to work.
2007-02-12 03:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by ********* 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Theoretically the answer would be yes but practically it is not possible or at least it's a rare thing to have love without some "string" attached. Let's see love in an investment of your time and your emotions and it's hard to find someone who is willing to just go for the ride. There are always expectations and value judgments. You seem to be confused about the roles of friends and lovers. If you are a friend then you're a friend and not a lover. Likewise when you introduce your lover as a friend then you're clearly trying to misrepresent something. Are you not?
2007-02-12 11:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so because some how some where some ones strings get some what attached. They might not mean to but they do and then there went a good friendship down the drain.
2007-02-12 11:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by grady e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is like communism great in theory difficult in practice. In almost every instance someone will attach a string of some significance that will lead to either an end to the arrangement or to the friendship.
2007-02-12 12:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by J J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Love=strings attached. Friends can be with benifits, but when it crosses over to being lovers...no matter what anyone says, strings will be attached and they will get hurt if one of them strays no matter the agreement beforehand.
2007-02-12 11:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by gnomus12 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a while yes.
but answering this with experience, after a while one partner begins to get emotionally attached to the other which causes problems. the one that is just in it for the fun will begin to break off because he/she does not want to be emotionally attached. the one that is emotionally attached will have heartbreak and your friendship will most likely be ruined. I have tried that twice in my life and most of my friends have tried it. it also has broken off friendships with other people besides the "friend with benefits".
it's fun for a while, but then the fun becomes disasterous. trust me.
good luck, and make the right choices that suit you
bye bye
2007-02-12 12:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by Getoutalive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course....unless you are going to tie each other up! The only "ATTACHMENTS" necessary are heart, mind and body. It doesn't matter what you get tied up with, "strings" will be the least of your worries. Once you make the connection you can't undo the knot. If you want to do it just do it, if someone gets "Attached" ( which they will ) they'll be hurt,.. maybe the both of you.
2007-02-12 11:35:17 · answer #7 · answered by twostories 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would have to be made clear at the start of the relationship and an anonynymous decisioin. It can be done but it is not always safe.
2007-02-12 11:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by Alise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats up to the both of you.friends hang out with each other and other friends. your both going to see each other with other people. if that makes you feel uncomfortable then its not working for you. its good to have friends that all they want is one thing. she can call you and you can call her when you want to get together. but its a thin line to walk when you start having feelings
2007-02-12 11:39:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. That is called "friends with benefits" and it only benefits the one using the other. If you want a friendship to go into the toilet though sure why not.
2007-02-12 11:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think someone will always have feelings whether they are discussed or not. We are human, it's impossible not to feel attracted to a friend.
2007-02-12 11:33:20 · answer #11 · answered by Yummie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋