Just found out my boyf has been having a 7 month affair whilst working away, leaving me and my child on our own whilst he has this 2nd life away with some girl and her child! She knew about me and my daughter all the while.
I want to get revenge on my boyfriend, at the moment I'm still in shock so just want to do silly things like clean the toilet with his toothbrush etc. I've kicked him out as from today so need some ideas for revenge so that when I think of him I will smile thinking ha ha if only you knew! So all ideas are appreciated. Many thanks to everyone who replies.
2007-02-12 03:23:27 · 44 answers · asked by andrewslindsey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Put nair in his shampoo and conditioner bottles LMAO! Cut the crotch out of all his pants, Get the window car paint at Walmart and write on his windows "I'm a cheater, I had an affiar on my wife and child" on his windows, slice his tires, undercook his ckn or meat just enough to make him sick,
Have a fling and tell him about it, or purposely let him find out, max out all his credit cards if he has any, find out her address and send mail there in his name for herpes, HIV, etc, take his picture and put it on dontdatehimgirl.com then print it out and show it to him!!
Accidently wash all his color clothes in bleach and ruin them, there are so so so many things you can do.
2007-02-12 03:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by teresadick30 3 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Revenge is bad? BULL! Psychologically, revenge (if done within reason) is an outstanding release and a great way to get on with re-starting one's life. I won't make suggestions because they are brutally mean and downright destructive... ahhh, ok - here is one:
Psychological War Fare: Give it a few days until you can compose yourself then call him (if he hasn't called you) and talk about getting past the affair and cheating. Then get him to jump through hoops, put a bumper sticker on his car that says "I love my GF" or something stupid like that. Seriously drain him of all of his bravado and get him so softened up and weak that he thinks you're going to take him back. Let it go on until it isn't fun anymore and you know you don't really care about him and at that point make a date with a "looker" and make it a point to be seen by your EX and when you see the pain on his face - play it off as "oh gee, I didn't know" innocence and just tell him that all you were doing was wanting to be friends and if he thought otherwise - well, too bad - so sad. He will be destroyed and lesson will be learned. And you will be on with your life. Enjoy... remember your dish is best served cold. This is after you brought it to a boil.
2007-02-12 03:38:43 · answer #2 · answered by Cdub 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
After saying I'd never get serious about another man..Of course I met one...been engaged 6yr,s(that should have been a warning right there) Found credit card charges for pm.dating ,secret friends.com lalalala 2 weeks ago. It,s been going on two years. Getting the aid's test-#1 His ears don't hear a thing I say..all he's thinking is about how to get on line for the next new piece.Don'''t bother with revenge...it will zap your energy and you could end up in jail with him laughing at YOU.He most likely will come back when his weeny get's tired.Lepoards don't change their spot's..either does a cheating spouse with out the help of (Dr. Phil!) Work on bettering your self now so that It will be simple as pie to shut the door or simply hang the phone up when he tries to get back to heal his wounds..only to go out hunting again when he's well rested.
2007-02-12 05:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by loveyouoshinystar 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to live well. Just move on with your life and enjoy it, concentrating on doing whatever you need to do to make a good home for your daughter. This is a blessing in disguise - it has enabled you to find out what a creep he is. I hope your daughter isn't his - it will make it so much easier for you to avoid having to see him again.
Did you have anything you wanted to do before you met him, like doing a course, starting your own business, that sort of thing? Think of anything you can do that will make your life better. Get on with that, don't even think about Mr Limpd**k, and in a few years, you'll be having a wonderful life while he'll probably wasted his time screwing around. Let him see you can do SO much better without him.
If you want some revenge right now, I would write him a letter and make it sound as if you don't really care, but just say something like "I wish you had told me before that you weren't happy. I was feeling the same way and wanted to move on, but felt guilty at the thought of dumping you. If you had told me how you felt, I needn't have wasted X number of months . . . "
Sorry he has done this to you but try not to be too upset or even angry. He truly isn't worth it and trust me, there are LOADS of nice men out there who would be only too happy to get the chance to be with you and your little girl.
2007-02-12 03:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by Specsy 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You are doing the right thing by kickin' him out to the curve. Right now... Ur so furious that you want to get revenge, but thats not the way to get back at some1. If he was caught then so be it, just let him go and if he really loved you then he will realize that he had a good thing with you. Look im not saying to get revenge bc i kno u can. But ask yourself is this person worth it, bc obviously he can't repect you. Think about your child bc they are more important . Don't 2nd guess yourself, just show him that you can move on and do it with out him. Better 2 b alone than 2 b with someone that is going to hurt you and betray you. No one is perfect but you know what u are doing. If you want to get revenge then go right ahead but also think about the consequences bc u have a child . So think about your actions bc they can cost you in the long run.. ..Girl your better off alone and who knows maybe someday u will find some1 that can value you for who you are and what you have to offer. Think positive and move on.....show him that u don't need to get revenge, bc sooner or later he is going to get what he deserves. If he did it to you, what makes u think that he won't do it to her... So don't lower yourself to him, bc ur worth much more...
Good Luck Girl keep ur head up and move foward..... ")
2007-02-12 04:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by Faith23 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would definately be out for revenge, but i would leave it a while get him when he leasts expects it. If you leave it he will think you were a soft touch, great let him think that and that he got the upper hand but then you hit him where it hurts.
Be devious, think on it for a while you will come up with some great plans. If you go in all guns blazing now it wont be as effective and depending on what you do you dont want to get caught.
2007-02-12 03:43:58 · answer #6 · answered by rose 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could put prawns in the lining off his suits or coats,chuck paint on his car,sell everything he owns on E-Bay or make him a lovely curry with dog meat the list continues lol.
My friend wiped her butt on the lining, off all his suits, so he was going out meeting his tart with **** all over him lol.
But my best advise would be to move on and show him that you were and always will be better than him ,improve everything in your life that you have been putting off.
Did you know that the success rate off an affair relationships is a meagre 85%.
This other person who he hooked up with, will never trust him as their relationship is built on deceit and lies,just sit back and enjoy the ride,it will all end in tears for him.
Also hit him in the pocket,so he can't afford to take his tramp out,that will put a dampener on things lol
In the mean time get down the gym,it's better than revenge sex and you will feel better about yourself.
Hope you find someone who deserves you xxx
2007-02-12 03:44:19 · answer #7 · answered by live life 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is only going to make you feel worse about yourself in the long run. I also want revenge on my ex but feel it would be stupid for my child to grow up knowing I hate her dad with a passion. So what do I do for revenge kick him out of my life and act like I dont care..if he asks me if I have a boyfriend I tell him its none of his business..and I figure that if he wants to be with someone else im glad he doesnt waste my time anymore at least he gave you closure. The best revenge is leaving with poise and dignity and acting hurt because the guilt will eat him alive. He will hang his head in shame if you dont make yourself look bad. That is the best revenge. Moving on and making him feel the guilt instead of you reacting ..your reactions show you care deeply..it would be worse if you said "okay youve made your choice, goodbye". and then not react or anything.
2007-02-12 04:32:26 · answer #8 · answered by jennyve25 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Living well is the best revenge.
Doing something beneath you will just leave you feeling empty, unsatisfied and no better than he is. Chances are, whatever you do you are unlikely to hear the fall out of what happened as a result so it really wont achieve anything.
Move on, find happiness and forget him. The best revenge is simply doing better next time.
2007-02-12 03:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by Caffeine Fiend 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I have been through this...it's hell, and you will be going through all the different emotions involved with 'loss' over the next few weeks/months. Hang in there. The thing that worked best for me was that I lost a lot of weight (I was quite chubby) and it made me feel and look great. I heard my ex told his mates he was so mad because I was looking so good, made me feel even better! ha ha! eat your heart out.
Ultimately though, he knows he's lost out on something beautiful anyway, and that he is a two-timing b*st*rd. He will have to live with his conscience, you will move on and find someone who deserves you and be happy! Good riddance.
Good luck.
2007-02-12 03:32:57 · answer #10 · answered by zweebob 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is bitter sweet. In the end u will only feel good for a moment. The roller coaster of emotions will continue until you heal.. I keyed my ex's car.. but i still felt hurt.. Love is blind and so is rage. Silence is golden. Focus on all the things you didn't while you were with him. Remember what goes around comes around. Cheaters never prosper! !!
2014-04-14 02:20:07 · answer #11 · answered by GEMINI STAR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋