I have a problem ejaculating during sex. I can ejaculate by masturbation but not during sex. I also have a problem staying erect. One problem is I don't feel anything when having sex. I have asked a doctor what is the problem he didn't know. He gave me a sample of viagra that helped me to stay erect, but it didn't solve the problem of not feeling anything. I also asked a urologist about the problem he gave me blood thinners that did nothing. Some people told me it is psychological so I asked a counselor he couldn't help either. So I did some research myself. I might have Delayed ejaculation which refers to an inhibition of ejaculation. The male is unable to ejaculate during intercourse, . Some of the causes of this is a tramatic sexual experience which I have had, or a spinal injury and I was born with Spina bifida but I have no paralysis. Recently I found out that if you are circumsized your penis could become desensitized. Does anyone know what my problem is and how to fix it?
2007-02-12 02:38:22 · 5 answers · asked by ♫Rock'n'Rob♫ 6 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I am not impotent I get an erection nearly every morning. I would love to hear from professionals or someone that has this problem I really need help. Me and my wife fight every day and have gone a very long time without sex I think if I didn't ahve this problem our marriage might get better.
2007-02-12 02:40:15 · update #1
I have had this problem for a very long time. I don't get erect as easy as I used to and that could be because of all the nagging my wife does but I have always had a problem getting an erection but with enough time I usually get an erection but not lately it could also be my age I am 33.
2007-02-12 03:28:47 · update #2
Maybe counselling would help you get over the traumatic experience, or taking something to relax you (Valerian is a good herbal anti-anxiety agent).
Or agree to have non-penetrative sex, spend time touching and fondling and oral and try to satisfy both your needs that way?
2007-02-12 05:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by Little miss naughty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well the nagging don't help. You could try longer foreplay, I sure the wife would like that too! The circumsized penis could be a small part of the problem, and there are shields you can buy to place over the end of your penis(may be worth a try). Chances are you may have a psychiatric problem and need help that way. Speaking from my own experiences it has helped me. Also you might be taking some type meds. that be affecting you. At 33 years old you should still be pretty much a your peak.
2007-02-12 05:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by Mountain Man 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you know what it is? well, about the feeling when having sex do you know why? beacuse you press ur penis too hard when you masturbate, since the vagina isnt like ur hand it doent make u feel anything. am i right? try not to masturbate for a week or 2 and then have sex... if the problem isnt solve then we got a problem, hope this helps.
2007-02-12 14:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like too much nagging
2007-02-12 03:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like some kind of psychological hangup.
2007-02-12 03:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋