I have been with my ex boyfriend for 3years we split up 2month ago bt i just cant seem to let go i love him so much, we have still been talking to each other and we have seen each other a few times but now we have stoped talking to each other and i miss him so much i cry all the time and sometimes i wish i wasnt here... i just feel so empty and alone what can i do?
2007-02-12 02:09:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is the time to create a better relationship with you. If you feel so alone this may be a symptom of why your relationship ended. You are getting your worth from outside of yourself.
Start the journey of becoming whole. Become one with yourself. Learn to love yourself first. Look into books that teach you self-love and respect. Your only salvation is within you. Start reading, learning, and growing.
TS
2007-02-12 02:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a relationship exper, however, I've been around long enough to know when to let go and that if u believe in a higher being that will bring another man into your life that has some of the same good qualities as your x and could very well bring more happiness into your life, then you're on the right track to recovery. It's sad to know that you have thought about not wanting to be here for the love of another human being -- if you loved your self more you wouldn't feel this way, remember u come first. Crying is a way of letting you know that this day will pass and that you need to stay busy and get on with your life. Here are some things to keep u busy.
Take a long bubble bath w/candle lights
Play upbeat music - no love songs
Hang out w/your best friend
If you have a career stay busy with it, study, study, and study
Get out and know you are beautiful and it doesn't take a man to keep you happy. You sound young enough to keep busy and keep moving.
Peace
Ms. Mew
2007-02-12 02:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ronnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were so used to being with your ex-boyfriend for so long that you haven't had time to even get over him yet. And by seeing him and talking to him a few times probably made it worse now that theresno communication at all. I know it must hurt and by not even wanting to be here is not the answer. You have to get out and be with other people now and try to go on. Talk to friends ect........ It may seem like the end of the world now, but time heals, you may not think so but try and you'll see. You are very hurt right now and maybe somewhat depressed. And thats why you need to talk to others and start doing other things and soon the hardest part will be better.
2007-02-12 02:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by awr1956 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 03:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if the guy dosent love you at all you cant force him to love you...
Once lost you cant have hios love back...
Did you asked him if he still loves you...?
Why did he break up with you.../?
If he doesnt love you anymore just forget him...
Just cry when you feel like crying....
Just try to have all yr friends around you !
Just put everything presents, pictures ,everything that reminds you of him put them in a box and burn them
TRy not to be alone...being alone will make you think of him!
It will be quite difficult at the begining...But forget him ypu cant force someone to love you!
Time will help you to forget him!
Good luck!
2007-02-12 02:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by Neacsu v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no this wil prob sound hard n its not what u wont 2 hear but u have got 2 move on u miss him because u spent 3 years wiv this man n yes u prob did love him but it has come to and end if u n him r meant 2b 2gether then u wil b i was wiv my ex 4 8 years n he left me and i missed him so bad i dint wont 2 live wiv out him ect but i started goin out meetin new peeps n i meet another man and i am so happy u gotta move on im not sayin go get another bloke but go out n have fun
2007-02-12 02:15:47 · answer #6 · answered by dawnmercedas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let go! learn to let go! yes, we're there, you love him..you're friends(i think?), but i can tell that he is also hurt with your situation now that you stop what you're often doing, you stop talking to each other, seeing each other..he hurts the same way as you do..maybe its really meant to be this way..maybe.. ure not meant so learn to let go! if you've broken up 2months ago,then live with it, if he loves you and wants you back he wouldnt stop being with you..date somebody, anybody..just dont let yourself get abused by someone or something because of this problem..
LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU LOVE SOMEBODY ELSE...
2007-02-12 02:24:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard, and i know what its like to be with someone for a long time, I was with my ex for 14 years and we broke up 6 months ago, because of something she did that broke my heart, and it hurts to deal with it...i have found a way to distract myself from thinking about her. I love music, and I love playing guitar, so thats what I do, to get my mind off her. find something you love and distract yourself with it. You don't have to get over him, right at that moment. Take your time, and I promise you that you feel unhappy anymore. I'm still hurting but i'm getting by, so don't worry, it'll get better, and hey if you feel like talking just email me. bloodrayne63@yahoo.com.
2007-02-12 02:22:16 · answer #8 · answered by damienevanwest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still love him,thats ok. but you guys obviously couldnt get along anymore. your feelings for him will start to fade away over time. look, just remember all the good times you had, and remember you might not have ever had those good times. better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all, right babe? ciao?
2007-02-12 02:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by i tell it like it is 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eat some chocolate, that will make you happier. Then tell him that you just want to be friends, but only if you just want to be friends. If you want to be more than just friends, tell him that you miss him, cant stop thinking about him, and want to be with him again. Whatever happens, good luck.
2007-02-12 02:15:31 · answer #10 · answered by Mac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋