when I stand up to peoople and defend the people or thingsa that i care about i start crying!!!! its really embarising!!! Help!!! How do I not cry infront of people when i stand up to people!!!??
2007-02-12 02:08:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I go through the same thing as you. When I feel people are pushing me around or taking advantage of me; I stand up for myself and start crying. They probably think it is because I am weak, but really I am crying out of anger - it is probably the same with you. It is hard to stope yourself from crying when you are in an emotional state, so if at all possible, wait till the anger has subsided and you are feeling relatively calm and then address the concern (ie: stand up to the person). Believe me girl, I know what you're going through.
2007-02-12 12:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your tears show that you have very strong feelings about what you're defending. It's a natural expression of your emotions.
However, if you want to avoid crying in front of people, try to substitute the crying with a different expression of emotion - one that you wouldn't feel uncomfortable expressing.
2007-02-12 11:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by ms_lain_iwakura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to stop being Human? If it is to act as tough as possible in front of people, then give up the fight. You are a caring and sensitive person. There is nothing wrong with that. Let people laugh, its their problem not yours.
2007-02-12 10:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are probably afraid that you will be hollerd at. dont let that bother you. when somebody hollers,all that they are really saying is,"IM NOT HAVING MY WAY" think about it! say what you feel and be firm and positive about it. some people just are mean..good luck!
2007-02-12 10:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by bearchaser44mag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋