I met this gal it was love at first sight but after some time I had to move to a new place as I graduated looking forward to make my career initially it was difficult to stay in touch but things changed we got more closer than before occasionally we used to meet.After all high's speaking to each other for hours one fine week she left to party with her friends I tried to keep the same intensity going .........but she has lost the same intensity we had before saying she is busy which makes me call her more forgetting my life and all the hassles involved in it. Now it reached a point she wants to break off the engagement I asked her for a last chance..........Friends am I being inconsiderate because should give her some time and space has been only like 1 week when all this started happening.I really like this person and I am ready to change please advice
2007-02-12 01:50:52 · 4 answers · asked by rock 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Give her the space that she needs. The more you call her the more she is going to dislike you. If she needs space give it to her. She'll notice that you have stopped calling and maybe in time she'll start calling you. You have a busy life so focus on yourself for awhile. It will help you get your mind off of her and that should stop you from calling her all the time. No woman wants a needy man. So stop calling.
2007-02-12 02:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by Inez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes relationships that start quickly, end as such. You have to have time to develop true feelings and possibly she realizes that those feelings just aren't there. Give her the break she's requested and if or when she decides she's had enough time and is ready to resume things, see how you feel then. Maybe she'll come around, maybe it's over. I beleive true love doesn't require a person to have to change from who they are. There is someone out there to love you just as you are.
2007-02-12 10:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need a break from this girl. if she's not being the same old sweetie of yours she might be having an affair. especially if she wants to break off your engagement. it'll be hard for you to let her go but it probably is the best thing for both of you. it seems you need to worry about your life first and then when you're all settled with your life you can settle with someone else's life. don't forget about yourself. let her go, maybe a couple month's go by and you can get her back. but all you two need is space.
2007-02-12 09:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by Sof723 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to tango, and, if she does not wish to dance, find a new partner.
2007-02-12 09:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋