can any girls help me plz?

Question

i meet my wife 6 years ago we started sex the second day we meet and it was wonderful to both 4 times a day sometimes but at least once a day for the first 3 years then after mi lil boy was born she never asked me again she let me be with her but i can feel she dont enjoys at all. im not sure what to do , she tells me she loves me but dont want sex and that is very hard for me because im a sex machine and im a little longer than average but im very very thick and i think i hurt her i feel real bad about it but i dont think i can be with her and not have sex i ask her to go to the doctor but she refuses to i feel like she wants me out of her life but we got 2 kids and is very hard for me to be away from my babes if any ladies plz can help my wife is only 24 and im crazy to be with her plz help

Answer 1

Sometimes when you are overwhelmed and tired and the time is always about the house, the bills , the children work, work, work
And there is no more intimate time then the sexual desire for a woman fades away......

We are emotional...... help her with the dishes my husband will come up behind me and take my hands as I am washing and "help" me wash LOL gently but lovely pressed against me....you know it get my mind switching a little from work to him

He has started the last couple of week brushing my hair just for short times but is I am on the computer he will run the brush through it every time he has done this I have turned around and kissed him laying my head against him.....

Help her get the children baths in bed.......

Try to help her find herself again we loose that sometimes when we get to overwhelmed


She is and you are not the "center" of your world anymore the kids are there......but y ou have to balance that ...there HAS to be time for you and romance

Answer 2

Hi take some time when the children are in bed or when you and she are alone and discuss what you are feeling and also listen when she tries to tell you what she is feeling. It might be that she is too tired. It may be that you could help her out and assist her in some of the chores so that she is not tired out.
Do you practise safe sex so she does not get pregnant again soon. She may be hurting as well she may be so tired she has no interest.
See if you and she can have a weekend away leaving the children with relatives. It would be a nice break away and a time for you and her to be alone.
See if that helps out ... Assisting with duties around the house is a great way to help her out so that she is not too tired as well.
She may be fearful of having another baby which might be preventing her from becoming aroused.
the best person to ask is her she will give you all the answers I am certain. Talk and be open with each other
This is not a Race its a Marathon and I hope you both come in winning

Answer 3

She does not want you out of her life. Caring for children can be both physically and emotionally draining. Are you helping her with the cleaning, cooking, babysitting? Im 20 yrs old with a 3yr old & a 1yr old, and trust me, its stressful to think about sex after a full time job, and the rest of the household chores. She's asking for help. When your exhausted all you want is sleep, not sex. Give her a one minute shoulder rub, sweet talk, flirt with each other. Find time alone together, look for creative ways to get together. Put the kids to bed early, shower together. Be a little more creative. Hope this help.. Best wishes!!!
PS: Remember to help her out = )

Answer 4

I don't have an answer for you but I am a women 28 years old and been with my husband for 8 years. after our son was born (which was only a year after we met) I lost all interest in sex. Thank god my husband stuck with me. My son is almost 8 now and it has only been about 7 months since I regain interest in sex. I think we are averaging about 7 times a month. It may not be much but trust me less sex gives you better quality. Giver her time and she may come around.

Answer 5

I do understand that having children can change sexuality for parents, esepcially mothers. It can be a hormone change that makes it less enjoyable for her physically, or it could be something else entirely.

Is she too tired? Are the kids awake, or likely to wake up and interrupt? Do you truly have privacy? Has something changed physically with her body that she finds sex less enjoyable now than before?

The only way to resolve it is to talk it out, find out why sex is not as appealing to her currently, and then find out if there's a way to bring your sex life back to the level you can both enjoy it.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

This is normal activity. She had kids and many women lose there sex drive after having kids. Just let your parents have the kids for a weekend and do the whole romantic thing and tell her what you just put up here and don't just have sex with her for your pleasure. Make love to her for both of you and your relationship.

Answer 8

you need some good seducing techniques. We ike it when men turn romantic on us, it makes us feel special, and indeed sexy. You should leave notes on the fridge with litte "i loves you's" on, buy her flowers, let her know you'd do anything for her. When she's not in one day, get a babysitter and organise dinner at a restaurant, or cook it yourself. When you return home, make sure the bedroom is filled with candles and rose petals. If this doesnt seduce the woman, then i dont know what will. :)

Answer 9

I think you should just ask her nicely exactly what you've asked us... You'll never know the answers if you don't ask... (the right person, of course) You've got to remember, a woman's body changes when she has a baby and most of the time we don't feel very sexy or sexual but a lot of the time some gentle persuasion and a lot of patience will get you very far.

Answer 10

I know what it's like to be in a sexless marriage. I feel for ya. I don't know what to tell ya. I get told no all the time and I feel the same way you do about the whole marriage thing with out sex.