I am not saying I'm for it or against but judging by some of your answers just wonder what your answers were to the following questions, If some one was using contraception but still fell pregnant as we all know nothing is 100% effective except for Celibacy, would they still be wrong for having a termination?
Also do any of you anti abortionists out there use the non hormonal type of coil as contraception as surely this would go against your beliefs?
2007-02-12 01:43:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm not saying you have to be anti contraception if you are anti abortion but surely if you are anti abortion you must be against the non-hormonal version of the coil as this does allow an egg to be fertilised and make an embryo but just not settle in the womb, so in affect a baby is made but not allowed to grow.
2007-02-12 02:19:05 · update #1
I am not anti-abortion. I feel like this is a choice that should be 100% up to the mother & babys father (if he is around). Everyone woman who has an abortion does so for their own reasons. It is not up to anyone but God to judge them. I hate it when a woman asks a question about having an abortion & all these people like swarm to tell the woman not to do it. It is her choice. It is a hard enough decision to make without everyone telling you that you are a murderer. In the Bible, as long as you ask for it, God will forgive you, no matter what & I truely believe this to be true. If you cant be helpful to someone who needs to help, then it may be best just not to say anything at all.
2007-02-12 06:23:34 · answer #1 · answered by leashell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have one question for everyone that is against abortion, How many of these unwanted children will you adopt?"
When I was 17 my parents decided to adopt 2 special needs children and so they are part of the solution, if these girls cannot terminate their pregnancy and your answer is " why can't you give it up for adoption" you should really evaluate what you are willing to do to be a part of the solution rather than closing the window to abortion. And yes it is horrible to think about a dead fetus, but in reality until a fetus reaches at least 20 weeks in the medical world, it is not considered even remotely viable outside the womb and though this might sound ugly, it is basically living as a parasite in the mothers body, absolutely incapable of sustaining life outside of the mother. - so before you say that you are Killing something, it has to be living... doesn't it?
and if you don't want them terminated, then you shouldn't you be out there adopting all these unwanted children?
Just something to think about.
2007-02-12 16:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because ur pro life does not mean u have to be against contraception. abortion is not right i will send u a web link to a pic of a 21 week baby puttin his hand out of his other womb during surgery. it is so hard to feel like havin a baby is the best thing when u dont want one but that is the price we pay for sex. with sex there is always a chanc of preg. if u have sex u take that chance. abortion is not a contraception and if life is not wanted people should not have sex. i am preg now and it not planned and it was so easy to say i want an abortion, but at the end of the day, it itakes a stronger and better person to have that child.
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2007-02-12 10:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by kelly h 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I am against it but there are some reasons im for it. Like i belive abortion is ok when someone was raped, way too younge like 16 and under, or it would kill them or if they had a desease that would go to the baby and they didn't want to risk it. And this is only if the person was like using protection always and not trying to get pregnant. Now the reasons im against it is cuz stupid lil girls think there grown to have sex but when they get pregnant they cain't actually be responsible. Like if you was having sex unprotected or don't know what your doing or just sleeping around and get pregnant then you should grow up and take responsibilty instead of whinning about it. Im sorry but your killing a baby, a soul when you do have a abortion.
2007-02-12 10:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by everlasting_matchstick 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am 26 and my parents put me on birth control at 16 and I was not having sex i took myself off when I turned 18 and through that whole time I did not have sex.
When I got married I always had unprotected sex with my husband. So no at no time did a sperm come in contact with a egg and become fertilized. Until about 5 1/2 months ago and I am pregnant now.
Even if I would have had sex off of birth control and wound up pregnant at 16 I would have kept the baby generations in my family have been able to do it why can't I.
Also my mother was raped at 16 and wound up pregnant and kept it. If she wouldn't I wouldn't have the great older brother I do.
Also I am not for the death penalty, I could never sentence someone to die maybe live their life behinh bars and live with what they have done but not die. I support what my president and country are doing over seas because I beleive in my country but if we could get away without war I would be happy, but that is not an option.
2007-02-12 10:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by neicee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not all people who are anti-abortion think that contraceptives are considered abortion. And since we all do know that when using something like the pill you still have a possibiltiy to get pregnant other measures should be made, abortion shouldn't be used as a form of "birth control." And is it really the child's fault that they were concieved?
Just my honest answer.
2007-02-12 10:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by Ammie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think subjects like this are generally but not always made upon religious beliefs, ive noticed that most pro-choice supporters are atheist (sry bout my spelling) and pro-life are from religious backgrounds, muslim, christian etc.yes there are exceptions to this. i agree with choice fo everthing including contraception. but ive also never heard a woman say she does not love her child regardless of weather it was wanted, planned or even if abortion was considered etc.
this is a topic that will never be settled.
women should be allowed to make any decision without predjudice etc or the harassment of paticular groups. weather pro life or choice or not fussed either way.
2007-02-12 16:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as_it_is........all your links are bad not one would come up. and just because we don't think abortion is right doesn't mean we support any of the other things you were talkin about. if your not ready for the consequences of sex don't have it. use birth control and condoms. abortion is not a form of birth control and shouldn't be used as such. whether you think of it as a baby or a bunch of cells it is a human life we all start that way and it would be a person in just a few short months. the baby didn't ask to be conceived and didn't have a choice in it so why should we kill it and never give it a chance just because you didn't protect yourself?
2007-02-12 10:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by hippie_chick69love 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel that it is a decsion that each person needs to make for themselves, but should not be the first option considered in every situation. If a mistake is made then it is up to the possible future mother (and possibly the dad) to decide what she wants to do about it. I don't feel it is mine or anyone else's place to decide what they should do. Just because it is something I wouldn't do doesn't mean that I think everyone else should not be given the option.
2007-02-12 10:05:40 · answer #9 · answered by Dragonfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right I dont like the coil either. It allows you to conceive and then causes you to miscarry. Good contraception can eliminate most unwanted pregnancies.
2007-02-12 11:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋