by the age of 15 is when i became very attracted towards girls and its yet to stop. im 20 soon to be 21 and i love girls lol....yes i have fooled around with some and enjoyed every minute of it. im even dating one now....do you think it was a choice or just naturally came on? sure i dated guys in the past but it was only to hide my sexuality and out of all the guys i dated id take a girl over all of them any day. i fully stoped dating guys around my 11th or 12th yr of high school and now my parents are wondering why i havent had a bf and i graduated in 04 and its now 07....u think they may know?
2007-02-12 01:43:01 · 19 answers · asked by orange_crush_05 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
duno babe...ive told you why im attracted to you and to other girls... alot of people tellme its because my mum was.....but honestly its my choice, you may have been born gay but ultimately if you want to fight it you can.
2007-02-13 20:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents may know on an unconscious level. Unless you remember some time when you decided that you didn't want to be turned on by boys any more and decided to be turned on by girls instead, thereby cutting the field of available prospects by over 90%, then you were probably born that way.
2007-02-12 09:54:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
It doesn't really matter does it? Some people like my Great Aunts adopted boy was born like that. He tried on dresses and heels when he was about 2-3 years old. Some people are born like that, others make a choice. As far as your parents go...I think they are just worried and suspicious. I don't think they know for certain.
2007-02-12 11:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by Catwoman 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes, you were born gay. How could you even think it was a choice you've made? You know what you feel and how you feel. Go with that and pay no attention to the fools that claim it's a choice.
2007-02-12 10:13:42 · answer #4 · answered by castle h 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think everyone that is really gay is born gay. The only reason people get it confused is thanks to the little young girls in these clubs that love to "make out" with one another to turn the guys on. It seem to make them more open minded but they are being stupid. I don't think a person have no choice on whether or not their gay.
2007-02-12 09:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
i think it was your choice coz you only started liking girls at the age of 15... and not ever since you were born or in nursery school
2007-02-14 22:05:13 · answer #6 · answered by forlorn hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you were born different and realised it as you became sexually aware. Your parents may have guessed but they'll only know if and when you tell them.
2007-02-12 10:08:39 · answer #7 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were born the way you are. Gay is not a choice, and you did not choose it. The parents may have an idea, but will not know until you tell them or they see proof.
2007-02-12 10:06:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
They probably suspect, but I have no clue if they know for sure or not. Personally, I think my sexuality is something I was born with. My expression of it has been shaped by circumstance.
2007-02-12 14:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honey you like girls, it was a choice and it's a fetish you have. Hey.. I like big ole asses, I wasn't born to like big ole butts I learned it somewhere as I grew up and now it's a fetish I have. I couldn't date a skinny chick if you paid me to.
If you're going to be gay at least me man or woman enough to claim it on your own and not blame God for your choices in life.
It truely is a weak way of dealing with being who you are.
2007-02-12 10:09:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋