How else will I survive, I need help please!!!!?
please somebody help me, I am 5 months pregnant, my boyfriend doesn't have money and is not working yet, though he is struggling real hard to get us through and he is happy about the baby, my family and friends have rejected me because of the shame of unwanted pregnancy. I love my baby and I don't want anything to happen to it. I have not been going to Antenatal and I don't feed well either. I just don't want to give up for i am a strong girl and I don't want anything bad to happen to either me or the baby. Please, somebody tell me what to do, I am very confused. I need help. fast before something goes wrong. Also, I am still in the University.. hope to hear from you soon. Lovelyn From Nigeria.
2007-02-12 01:40:44 · 7 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I would go to a local health dep or somewere so got help. Have you heard about medicade. Take out a loan if you can just till you can get by and own your own two feel. Im glad to hear that even though yaw are struggling yaw still got good hearts to have that baby and never give up. I would do the same no matter what. Take your pregnatal vitamens and tell your man any job is good. And you should try working a lil if you can. like a desk job won't hurt. I know its hard but you just have to hang in there. bless you for being so strongwilled and optimistic this far. and congradulations
2007-02-12 02:05:51 · answer #1 · answered by everlasting_matchstick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant see a doctor then you need to take pre-natal vitamins. well wait to see how things come out with your boyfriend getting a job and what not, and if by the 8th month he still doesnt have a job then i would consider giving the baby up for adoption, at least by doing that you will know that the baby is safe and well taken care of.
2007-02-12 01:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by Kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why no job? there are alot of jobs out there and both of you can work so I think it is time to start getting off the computer and go apply for jobs. May not be your dream job but you all need heath insurance and money to live.
2007-02-12 07:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You MUST see a dr. If you cannot afford this, you absolutely need to make sure that you are taking pre-natal vitamins. A vitamin deficiency can cause serious birth defects in your baby. Please seek the advice of a doctor.
Good luck to you all.
2007-02-12 01:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by jmiller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well get yourself some proper care then, it seems to me that u are creating a whole lot of problems yourself!!!! u are in this situation now u have to be responsible and get on with it!! sorry, but I don't really see where the problem is...get to antenatal classes, get a doc, get some vitamins and get on with it!
2007-02-12 01:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by Serry's mum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apply for help. Ask at the University also.. here are some websites.
2007-02-12 01:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your faith and pray alot.everything will work out just fine if you turn your problems over to GOD.
BEST OF LUCK
2007-02-12 01:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by chris w 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋