I need some good ideas to get revenge on 2 lying boys that have said things about me that are neither good nor true!
I hate gossipers but i have thought about spreading a few nasty rumours myself - what do you think?
and how long shuld i wait to take my revenge?
2007-02-12 01:28:11 · 13 answers · asked by kate e 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
sandwiches.... but i think sandwiches are more a reward than revenge..... last time i checked. hmmmmmmmmm
2007-02-12 01:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by antagonist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is best served as a non-good, not an evil. You make damend sure you will never help them out of any trouble, period.
When you seek revenge, you do three things:
1- You give the perpetrator a lot more power then they should have, giving them reason to assault you again and stroking their egos;
2- You keep the fight alive, and sure that there will be no end to it; and
3- You show them that you care.
Everyone, just about everyone on this planet, knows that rumors exist, and knows better than to believe everything said. Truly intelligent people, who happen to have better things to think about and also enough confidence to not need to compare themselves to nonsense to feel better, don't even pay much mind, and believe none of what they hear and only half of what they see.
Average people may start to believe things if heard often enough form sources that have little to gain. Dumb people and those who just need anythign to distract them from their own insane lives will believe and actually promote anyhting they hear-
and everyone else knows it's just crap and hype.
Except, if you act like you care about it, then you look guilty.
Hold your head high. ALWAYS! Others will figure out that these are just rumors.
If you continue, you are petty and particularly insecure.
And if you're insecure, fake it until you believe it.
No one in this world can know the truth like you do.
You may have to rationalize to yourself here and there, but if something awful never happened, IT DIDN'T happen.
NEXT!
2007-02-12 01:39:23 · answer #2 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have read that "living well is the best revenge." I take "living well" to mean enjoying a life free from unnecessary anxiety and negative thoughts. Dwelling upon such things as revenge is negative and produces anxiety. Why not ignore the two lying boys and live your life as if their opinions had no impact on you. Enjoy the things you enjoy, love the friends that you have and live well.
Revenge is an awful waste of time.
2007-02-12 01:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, for the previous few weeks I certainly have heavily been thinking approximately it yet I certainly have desperate to permit destiny take its path. Karma will shelter the region. additionally, i comprehend that my judgment of right and incorrect will by no potential provide me peace if I acted on my thoughts. i'd desire to admit however, I certainly have considered many diverse techniques of having revenge in contrast actual man or woman.
2016-11-03 05:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has the potential to turn into a vicious cycle, you say something about them and then they say something even worse about you. If it's fairly obvious to everyone that they are just making things up then it's probably best to just ignore them - this will make them much more angry since if you retaliate they will know that they hurt and embarrassed you.
2007-02-12 01:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by psychstudent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to focus so much of your energy on insignificant people in your life. If you create a negative energy, all you do is make the fire bigger and more powerful. People say lame things all the time, and the more you pay attention the more it will sting.
2007-02-12 01:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What goes around comes around, they will have there life marred in some way without you having to do anything, karma is a wonderful thing that needs no work put in when it comes to getting your own back on others, ignore their stupid snide remarks, move on from it, stand back and watch them get their comeuppance via karma because believe me they will.
2007-02-12 03:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in revenge, but that´s just me, trust, act like everything is cool and one day a fitting opportunity will present itself to you, and it´ll be glorious, it might not make you feel good but you´ll get your point accross.
2007-02-12 01:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by hardcore_pawn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't serve revenge cold. It is best not served. Let what you are be its own defence. If you spread lies, you justify their lying.
2007-02-12 01:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by alan h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your head up and be strong. No need for revenge. You shouldn't bring yourself down to their level, you are much better than that aren't you? ;)
2007-02-12 01:35:16 · answer #10 · answered by sbro 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
revenge is the worst thing you could take. Don't do anything, wait until something happens to them and laugh histaricly(sp)
2007-02-12 01:31:37 · answer #11 · answered by thebigone238 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋