he is scared to come around me because i told him that if he continue to transport his associates around to steal he would also start stealing. today he is a shoplifter. what is a dad suppose to do?
2007-02-12 01:15:47 · 7 answers · asked by southernman48197 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
His sexuality has nothing to do with theft.
2007-02-12 01:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A dad is supposed to tell his son right from wrong. Driving the getaway IS the same as stealing. None of which has anything to do with his sexuality. You can discuss the two issues separately.
2007-02-12 09:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love your son his sexual preference has nothing to do with the love you have for your son
If he is shop lifting he will get caught and will go to jail even for something as small as a $2.00 item.
The thing he needs to realize is if his friends get caught and he is with them he goes down to weather he stole it or not he was with them that is all that matters.
If you want to talk to him about being gay do so but not in an ugly way the stealing has nothing to do with him being gay.......you need to adjust to his news...remember he is your son you have loved him all these years how can you disown hin for him being gay....Talk to each other
Maybe that setaling is a cry for help
2007-02-12 09:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A Gay Thief ? Sound's like a DVD title.
2007-02-12 11:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will come out on his own time, and he will tell you if he feels he wants to, but you need to help him stop the shoplifting
2007-02-12 10:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let him know that you support him whatever he does. And while on the subject try to calmly talk to him about shoptlifting... and maybe he will start to trust you...You have to let him get comfortable and then let him come to you.
2007-02-12 09:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by Crush06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously needs help you cannot give him. Tough love, turn him in.
2007-02-12 10:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋