I was wondering if there was a way to tell if you were pregnant a week after incourse because...I have been gaining a little weight and my waist has gotten bigger...but I need to know now it might help me with the desicion to press charges or not because I was forced to have sex with one of my friends and he didn't use protection....can anyone help me out...also, I can't tell my granparent...because I am 17 and he was 20 and they wouldn't undertand or believe me ...so anyone?
2007-02-12 01:15:13 · 13 answers · asked by tx_chick89 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Also, I have been feeling sick today and I usually am pretty healty... Also, Sore breast and all...I am worried if I don't find out soon something might happen
2007-02-12 01:16:43 · update #1
thanks to you guys so far....the reason i didn't go to the police the first night because I was so scared and dint' know what do to....before the night I was a virgin but yeah..
2007-02-12 01:24:29 · update #2
You cannot tell one week after intercourse if u are pregnant. It usally takes about 6 weeks for symptoms (if any)to tell if u are pregnant....and if u want to charge him with rape, you should have reported it right away...any physical evidence that could have been left on you will have washed away. They need to do a rape kit to find out and now it might be harder to convict him as it will be your word against his
2007-02-15 09:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by spacelee666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie I’m 5months pregnant and the symptoms are Tender, swollen breasts, Fatigue, Implantation bleeding, Nausea or vomiting
, Increased sensitivity to odors, abdominal bloating, frequent urination, a missed period, your basal body temperature stays high, the proof: positive home pregnancy tests are all the signs!! But babe, you said you were forced to have sex that is considered rape!!!!!!! Sweetie I would not wait to find out if you are! Just press charges. You did not want to have sex and your family will understand. Say something now before days pass by and it gets more difficult to say. And what if you are pregnant and then you press charges they are going to ask you why it took you so long to say something, then that’s when they are not going to believe you. Good luck babe you need to do something about that guy don’t be afraid and your so called friends ….now you know that they aren’t .
PS let me know what happens.....qpmala1@hotmail
2007-02-12 09:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by dalia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you wont get a false reading is by doing a HCG blood test. You might want to call your local clinics and ask questions about their policies. Some clinics offer free pregnancy tests. Even though you are still considered a minor, there are places who dont require parental consent unless a procedure (such as an abortion) is needed.
2007-02-12 09:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by Unique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres really no way to tell for sure if you're pregnant only a week after you've had sex. You have to wait awhile, dont stress because that could make ur next period come later and then you'll really stress. Just wait a few weeks and take a pregnancy test. Until then just pray to God and tell yourself your not pregnant. Oh, and report that guy!!
2007-02-12 09:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by michakitty87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to file charges on him, 1st of all. RAPE is a crime!!! you need to make an appointment with a Doctor or go to a health clinic because of the diseases out there. it's way to early to tell if your pregnant, but it's probablly your course starting. also call a rape center, this isn't something you should deal with on your own. PRESS CHARGES ON HIM...HE IS A RAPIST AND YOU'RE MORE THAN LIKELY NOT THE ONLY GIRL HE'S DONE THIS TO!!!!
2007-02-12 10:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by bama g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would not have any symptoms that soon. I don't understand something though...you are waiting to see if you are pregnant so you can decide if you should report this "rape"? That makes no sense whatsoever. If you were truly forced, you should have reported it already and the longer you wait, the more likely you wont be believed.
Be careful of your choices and who you place blame on...rape is a serious accusation.
2007-02-12 09:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by KathyS 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be very suprised if you had put on weight after just one week it usually takes a couple of months with your first one. i feel that sometimes when we have had such a bad experence like yours we can panic ourselves into thinking we have these symptoms (i did) but i would wait until your period is due.
As for this friend, from what you have said it is rape and it doesn't matter if your pregnant or not he shouldn't be allowed to do it to you or anyone else if it was me i would tell.
If you are pregnant think very carefully as i had my daughter from rape and it is very very hard to deal with it in your head but she is worth every minute of it.
Good luck i wish you well
2007-02-12 09:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by Blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be pregnant but it is not normal to already be gaining weight. If you were going to press charges you should have done it that day. Go to the police station and talk to them, they might go ahead and press the charges. Good Luck
2007-02-12 09:19:38 · answer #8 · answered by ?Sherbear ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't really tell if you're already pregnant a week after the intercourse. my friend once experienced this, she was vomitting and all, but o guess it was only driven by her guilt that's why she somehow believed she was pregnant. you usually find out you're pregnant after about a month and you might get into the vomitting stuff. if you do, try having a pregnancy test then decide what to do. :)
2007-02-12 09:25:00 · answer #9 · answered by pah-mee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go take a pregnancy test...and even if your not you should still press charges against the guy who rapped you..and then you should go get HIV and std testing since there wasn't any protection involved...then if you are pregnant then you need to talk to a family member about it and you should all contact your local police...and you should have did it the night he rapped you so they could have proof for the judge...good luck
2007-02-12 09:22:10 · answer #10 · answered by kimberly c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋