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Im a Sergeant in the Army currently deployed in Iraq this is my second tour in the last 3 yrs. Im having problems with my wife , my parents are getting a divorce and things here are not good. I live in a world where we have no electricity, running water, bathrooms food comes every 2 days . we get attacked at least once a day .. all for what?...sacrafice myself to the fullest and I dont even get apreciated by no one people back home dont realize theres a war going on everyday and Americans lives are been lost. So somebody tell me what the hell are we doing here and why our own people are not supporting us out here..Is what Im doing going to pay off later because Ive never suffer as much ....

2007-02-12 01:10:38 · 8 answers · asked by DAMIEN 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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Darlin' You are one of the most respected people in the world for
most of us right now. Your right it is very hard for us to realize just how much you guys give out there for us to live as we are currently living in the U.S. Don't get discouraged because you are living the life that was intended for you to live and YES you will
get your just reward. But do you really think that if you have chose a different road to travel things would be better??? I believe
things would be the same here for you. You can't save a relationship (parents) if the ones in the relationship doesn't want to be together. Who wants to stay in a relationship when the only
one that's happy is the one not in the relationship. The wife problems, however, are a little tricky. Your wife does need to support you but sometimes we get caught up in our own misery that we forget about others especially when it hurts to think about
our partner. She is going thru a lot I'm sure but you need to be strong and support her as well as her support you. You never know if this doesn't work out it could be to your benefit. At least
you found out now instead of later that when times get hard for
you two who will stay strong and keep up the fight and who want!!
Good Luck and God Bless You for what you are doing. WE ALL LOVE YOU GUYS VERY MUCH AND APPRECIATE ALL YOU DO!!!!!

2007-02-12 01:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by Karen K 3 · 0 0

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2007-02-12 18:47:32 · answer #3 · answered by sanki 3 · 0 0

I am sorry u are not being supported. I commend u for everything u have done for america and don't ever think for one second that ur not appreciated. There are no words in the american language to describe the sacrifice u guys r making for us and thanks doesn't do it justice but thank you. ???How r u getting online if u have no power??? anyway work hard and good things come to those who ask.

2007-02-12 01:20:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you live where thereis no electricity ever...then how are you here? Anyway, seriously say a prayer, don't ask the crazies here.

2007-02-12 01:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by jrhod263 3 · 0 0

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They have a lot of great articles and advice on how to cope with and reduce stress.
There are some great articles on military stress.

2007-02-14 05:18:40 · answer #6 · answered by marketingexpert 6 · 0 0

What kind of support would be most helpful to you now?

2007-02-12 01:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by Venita Peyton 6 · 0 0

Have faith in God brother. That's all you got over there.

2007-02-12 01:14:26 · answer #8 · answered by Gasman 4 · 0 0

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