I am 15 and I know that I am in love with a girl. But, the amazing thing is that there are much more beautiful girls in the school (physically) but to me, she is the only girl i want to be with and she is the most beautiful and pretty.
There are much more dilligent and intelligent girls but still I only want her.
I love her and I want to protect her despite the fact that three months ago, I have told her my feeling and she said she just want to be friends.
Can anyone tell me how do I fall in love with her? Where does that feeling come from?
2007-02-12 01:04:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You always want what you can't have.
2007-02-12 01:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by HUNG 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As u go through life u fall in love with different people based on what u are experiencing at that moment and who u are hanging around. Some work out some don't . Relationships are two ways and it is best to be friends if it is not a mutual thing. I still remember the one I wanted to go out with. He wanted to just be friends and I convinced him he fell in love with me and 3 months later we broke up and there was that awkwardness. If we had stayed friends we would still be in contact. These people and experiences you will remember for a long time. Remember to be a good person, be true to your feelings and go after what u want within the confines of the law, and if u really love someone u will do what is their wishes. Sorry kinda long but hope that helps some. have fun. love large, laugh often
2007-02-12 09:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you feel over protective of her? Falling in love can't be explained. I think you should forget about her (hard, I know,) as she said she just wants to be firends.
Concentrate on something/someone else for a while and keep your options open. Sometimes when you are 15, things seem so black and white - but as you get older, you'll experience the colour!
Good luck.
2007-02-12 09:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by Smokeabella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You 'love her' because you can't have her. And she can tell that you're still checking out other girls. You seem to put a lot of stress on how much more physically beautiful other girls are. And she's smart enough to see right through you.
2007-02-12 09:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by Venita Peyton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slim you are young there will be others. You can't force love on someone. If you feel its "her" continue to be her friend. Maybe she'll realize how much of a good guy you are. But don't force it down her throat. Just be easy with it..... Good luck and if it doesn't work out ... Dont let it get to you.
2007-02-12 09:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by Big Bean 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do love her and you will love others. You will get the same feeling, or something like it every time. Don't question it, just enjoy it.
2007-02-12 09:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by fangtaiyang 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your 15 its not love
you cant make yourself fall in love and you cant make her fall in love
you cant control falling in love
you are infatuated and as you get older you will find more girls its normal
just go with it be Friends and enjoy life you will be an adult soon enough with bigger problems then looking at girls
2007-02-12 09:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just it there feelings right or wrong their yours you love her and she wants to be friends . love is deep love comes from the heart .keep being a friend maybe latter on she might date you
2007-02-12 09:15:55 · answer #8 · answered by dan m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're 15, and young... you fall in love just because... looks dont matter
2007-02-12 09:08:08 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are these things called fermones that attract us to other people. if you must know we are animals too!
2007-02-12 10:28:14 · answer #10 · answered by Vikki[Rawhr] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋