what should i do if he starts acting funny around valentines day? one minute he loves me and the next he starts talking crazy and saying he doesn't love me. what should i do? i know he loves me, and i can't let him go, but it hurts me to stay, sum 1 pleeeeeeez help me!( IT'S NOT PUPPY LUV ANYMORE)
2007-02-12 01:01:35 · 11 answers · asked by sierra w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is scared, it's hard for him to commit a bit more, if you are young he may think that he needs to "explore" a bit more. Talk to him, he will not like it at first but you will have to ask him to tell you what he really feels no matter if it hurts you. It will have to be out in the open to know the true problem and then maybe work it out between you two.
And a wise advice, if you let something go and it returns to you, it was always yours. If it does not come back, it was never yours at all.
Good luck!!
2007-02-12 01:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by FireDragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say this but all men act funny around valentines day, if there not married, they feel pressured to get down one one knee and do the do!
perhaps hes worried you are expecting him to get down on one knee and propose! i think you need to have a long chat about what you both want in life.
i am sure he does love you, but if he cant decided and stop mess you around i suggested you leave and you let him know what he's lost, he will soon come running back!
2007-02-12 09:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by lolly12341812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. Tell him you want him to be honest. If he said he doesn't wanna be in the relationship.. Back away. If you keep chasing him you will only drive him further away. Or maybe you need to tell him that there is no pressure to go overboard for valentines day. Maybe hes worried about all that hype over sweethearts day. Good luck :)
2007-02-12 09:08:23 · answer #3 · answered by ~~**ttktd**~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, he's doing the average male thing to do and thats break up with u around the holiday to avoid giving a gift, only to return again on the 15th.
2007-02-12 09:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by anonymiss82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not happy dont stay it will only make things worse and you will get very down and depressed talk things through to see how he really feels if he doent love you the leave of he does ask him to try a little harder and to make the effort hope this helps
2007-02-12 09:06:47 · answer #5 · answered by x_jess_da_mess_x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The day before V-day, dump him. Then see how crazy he gets. LOL!!!! He won't be saying he doesn't love you anymore after that I guaranty.
2007-02-12 09:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by Gasman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing with your feelings. Tell him that you like him but need a man who's mature enough to always be honest.
2007-02-12 09:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by Venita Peyton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you love him, be firm in your resolve that you care for him, but do not let him play the game. put the ball in his court by telling him you love and care for him but if he is questioning himself, that is up to him. If he doesnt love you then he needs to let you know that.
2007-02-12 09:07:12 · answer #8 · answered by cici 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let em know your concerned about his feelings fluxuating like that, thats not normal.
2007-02-12 09:05:28 · answer #9 · answered by Joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just playing with you but you have dump him if it's more often because i think he's playing anymore..
2007-02-16 05:08:56 · answer #10 · answered by misia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋