2007-02-12 01:00:53 · 21 answers · asked by bev1107 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So do I, but I think it's best to keep it to ourselves. I don't think they
would understand. If you do tell her be prepared for a question and
answer session.
2007-02-13 08:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by RIKKI LEE 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, there are many quirks that people in this world have. Afterall, we are only human and no one is perfect. I would definitely tell your wife that you enjoy wearing high heels (hey, at leats you aren't telling her you are cheating on her or such). I know now a days people are very quick to break the "good ol" wedding vows and get a divorce. However, I am sure that you didn't marry your wife in like 2 days of meeting her or when you were in a drunk so I am quite positive she knew of your shoe fetish ahead of time. So, I would tell her. I am sure she loves you, afterall, she did take the "till death do us part vows." She may have a hard time excepting it (depends on her personality), but trust me there are a lot worse things a wife could hear. So, go on and wear your high heels if it makes you happy. This world should be about accpetance, love and haapiness. :)
2007-02-12 01:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by Bailey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a fetish for shiny leather heels too, but get off on the wife wearing them to give me pleasure. I came out and told her that I find women's feet and shoes very erotic, and I did not know how she would react.
At first she took a seemingly long uncomfortable pause, but then she smiled and we talked about it in more detail. To make a long story short, my wife now brings her sexy shoes into the bedroom and really knows how to keep me excited by either wearing them, or rubbing those heels all over me while we make love. She enjoys it because it keeps me hard for her, and I enjoy it because I can enjoy the fetish and my wife. Our sex life has gotten alot better, she even started painting her toenails a bright red, just because it turns me on even more.
So my friend, in my opinion, tell her, but do it by making her feel more important then the shoes.
2007-02-13 14:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by Steve 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All Vietnamese girls wear heels. I'm a Vietnamese girl, too. I don't often wear heels while i'm at work because I'm a nurse. I can't run around the hospital with the heels, but I always wear heels when I go out to have coffee with my friends. Don't worry about the heels. You might have to bring your wife in the future to buy more heels. Enjoy your life! Rose
2016-05-24 00:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what are you hoping for by telling her? do you want her ok about it? or feel guilty and want to off load it? or wanting reassurance that it's ok to want to wear high heels?
does it change the relationship that you have your fetish?
i guess as a wife, i would like to know about any thing like that about my husband. not sure how i'd react to it though. i may worry a little about what it means in the big picture.
i guess you could consider that wearing shoes isn't hurting anyone or yourself, so there isnt any reason why this can't be just your thing.
i think talk to a counsellor about it; i believe you have some unsettled feelings about it yourself and could possibly benefit talking to someone about it.
good luck.
2007-02-12 01:09:05 · answer #5 · answered by noodle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she already knows about it, why bothering telling her? There is nothing wrong in having fetish.
We all have our own fetishes, wheather we admit it or not, we have.
Well, if you think it will add something to your sex life or she would not mind, go ahead and tell her both by words and deeds.
Tell her it spices up your sex appetite, and give her a good one after that.
All the best!
2007-02-12 01:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's nothing wrong with having a shoe fetish, lots of weirdo freaks have them. Go ahead and make her proud, tell her.
2007-02-12 01:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by Studly Jim 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to tell her in a VERY careful way. i had a boyfriend that liked wearing high heels and i have to admit...i was FREAKED out, but after awhile...i have to admit it kinda turned me on a little.
2007-02-12 17:14:25 · answer #8 · answered by sabrinareto 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO!!!!! She'll run and never look back. Get over it before you lose her and look into what is causing this fetish. That's not normal!
2007-02-12 01:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by jjeano661 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no woman wants her man to wear her shoes. if you have a highheel fettish, then enjoy them while your wife wears them. other than that, its a bit freaky and I know I would be questioning your sexuality if you showed up in my heels.
2007-02-12 01:08:35 · answer #10 · answered by cici 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋