I am a woman. When I am attracted to a man, it starts off with an attraction to his personality....his integrity,compassion,intelligence,sense of humor. I respect something about him. As time goes on these feelings make him physically attractive to me. (Have I lost you,yet?!)
My opinion is that men are either attracted physically from the beginning, or they move on. Am I right or wrong? Please be honest.
2007-02-12 00:59:36 · 15 answers · asked by I am Sunshine 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Depends on the man.. We men sometimes have similar issues with women. Me, looks are nice,but after awhile.. If you have nothing else.. I would start questioning my relationship. As we age.. humor,integrity and intelligence are more important traits than what's on the outside.. If you only want short term relationships.. Looks are what get us.. Long term we needs more to sustain us.
2007-02-12 01:05:25 · answer #1 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find physical attraction to be a huge part in relationships with women. However, you got to be able to hold a conversation and have a good sense of humor as well.
2007-02-12 01:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by brewer82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man can be attracted to a women physicaslly just from her picture... are you saying you can't be attracted to a man physically just from looking at him?
I think, for me at least, it can go either way. A beautiful women can become less attractive after you get to know her, and a less attracive woman can carry herself and behave in a way that makes her more attractive. That usually involves pole dancing.
2007-02-12 01:18:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say in a pub or club how a person looks would incourage me to aproach them (and im not talking sluty looking thats not attractive i meen cute looking). then once you get speaking to them and i didnt find there personality attractive thats when it would end. so looks realy is important for a slit seconds. also if im not attracted to some1 for there looks and then i get to know them it becomees the other way around like u.
2007-02-12 01:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by jim j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never even thought about my x physically, althoug I loved her very much. Her personality, her mind, her smile ... she is beutifull by the way.
we are christian Egyptians .. we get married first then do the physical stuff.
So I'm telling you sometimes men are not physically attracted
2007-02-12 01:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by Ceaser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not right or wrong. It is a combination of both.
men are naturally more visual. so naturally we look at physical attributes first. but, we also then look at personality. it is not entirely one or the other.
for women, they are more emotionally oriented. so it is basically opposite.
2007-02-12 01:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by The Enlightened One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like both the personality and the physical side. Must have both. Sorry.
2007-02-12 01:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you said seems true in quick encounters such as at bars, parties, etc.
However, I believe many men react as you do when in a long term exposure environment such as work place.
2007-02-12 01:05:52 · answer #8 · answered by fwiiw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been attracted to many girls based on personality. after that you tend to ignore their physical faults.
2007-02-12 01:03:38 · answer #9 · answered by Bryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it depends on the situation.
If you are meeting at a bar, looks come first then we get to know you.
If we meet at a party, through mutual friends--then we get to see your personality first.
2007-02-12 01:04:04 · answer #10 · answered by RB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋