If these girls reject you for who you are, then they aren't really worthy of you anyway. You have to be totally comfortable with yourself before you can be with anyone else. Don't go changing because of what you think others want.
2007-02-12 00:59:21
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answered by Sunidaze 7
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Why do you want to change the way you look?
To impress someone? If you start down that road, all you will find is people that want to be around you for your looks not the person you are inside.
Looks aren't as important as the person inside you!
Some many people are so worried about their looks.
Well honey, looks fade.
No amount of money or surgery is going to stop it.
The people that love and care about you, won't care what you look like.
They see the beauty you have inside.
Start hanging around those people as they are the ones worth your time,care,and love.
If you are multiracial, then it can be hard to feel accepted.
Look for chat groups or blogs that deal with that issue, you may find someone special there.
When it's time you will find that special someone.
Just keep the faith and be yourself.
Let the your true light shine and and she will come.
Talk to someone you trust, ask them what they see when they look at you.
You may be surprised by what they say.
If you still feel low about yourself try seeing a therapist, they may be able to help you see why you have such low self esteem.
2007-02-12 03:30:35
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answered by merrymeet2005 3
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Welcome to the other side of my world. I am the third fairest of the Caucasians; I would love to be 2-3 shades darker. I finally gave up in my mid-twenties. Sunning gave me headaches; all I got was a very slight tan. Now I look 15 yr. younger than my contemporaries because I didn't sunbathe all those years.
I guess what I am saying is be proud of what color you are and stop trying to be what you can't naturally be. You were made unique and if women don't like you for yourself, too bad. Find some one that is not that shallow. Personally, I like brown.
2007-02-12 02:30:24
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answered by Ariel 128 5
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2016-05-24 00:34:26
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answered by Anonymous
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What an idiot.
Girls will reject you because you don't love and respect what you have and what you can do.
Try to talk to your real friends and well wishers and sort out your life.
You may see a hundred girls but yet marry only one, No?
Same way Girls will also see 100 boys and yet marry only one!
If you still don't understand consult a Psychiatrist or a professional counselor. They can help you raise your self esteem.
And the money saved from cosmetics can buy you Gold, Property and Shares and investments. Else, Donate it to Orphanage/Charity and then the children's blessings may get you someone more beautiful than Aishwarya Rai.
I hope you wake up!
2007-02-12 01:20:17
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answered by d_sco 2
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I know that trying to be fair is a long historical thing in India, but you should be who you are. Those chemicals are bad for you. And if those girls rejected you for your skin colors, that is not right. You will find someone who will like you for who you are. Don't care about your color.
2007-02-12 10:53:24
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answered by Anonymous
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there is nothing fair n bad dear.the only thing is inner beauty.every body r beautiful.god is not paritial.every body r born beautiful.but the things that we do make us more beautiful.so go ahead. look at some people who r physicaly handicapped.u r better.enjoy ur life. byeeeeeeeeee
2007-02-12 01:18:04
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answered by prince g 1
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Wow, I think darker skinned men are very attractive individuals. I don't understand why you'd want to marry someone who wouldn't accept you for who you are.
I'm white (very pasty white, LOL) and my husband is white, but my stepdad is black, as is his entire family, so I grew up seeing pretty (as in attractive) dark skin and hair, so I dunno.
I say be yourself! You'll find a nice girl eventually. Just don't try and make yourself different. Accept your own beauty!
2007-02-12 01:38:17
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answered by Miss Informed 5
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apply glycerine in rose water after washing ur face before going to bed.
see the result in one month
u will be satisfied
2007-02-12 01:16:34
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answered by vikky 1
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bleaching might help but it can be harm full if someone really like you they will take you as you are no need for any change but if they want to change you then they are just looking for slave
2007-02-12 02:05:37
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answered by Anonymous
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