I had a dream about one of my close freinds being lesbian ...in my dream she was confessing that she was a lesbian and she wanted to make love with me..the strange part is that I was feeling turned on and had feelings for her while in the real world girls dont turn me on at all...why I had these feelings?? does it mean im going to become a lesbian?!...and Iv exprienced these dreams several times with some other of my friends!!...
2007-02-12 00:36:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You are not a lesbian nor will you become one. It seems as if your subconscious may be defining your closeness with these female friends, and confusing your need for intimacy. Maybe your mind is telling you to develop more close friendships with men. Not necessarily boyfriends, but platonic friends who are guys. Sometimes woman have a tendency to overcompensate what we are not getting from the men in our lives with our female friendships.
Start asking yourself who is your friend and why. Do you have sisters?Are you close with them? What about aunts or female cousins? Are you okay with spending long periods of time alone?Who are your male friends and why? Which men are you comfortable being intimate with?
You'll be fine. Keep a diary or a journal to help your thoughts.
2007-02-12 01:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by Superspice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
real life . i think if you ever be approached by a lesbian or by female, you should put a stop to it then and right then. because your mind may wander back and think of the dreams you been having and you will be even closer to the lesbian act. now unless
you really want to experience it. your dream will come true. because your no longer sleep. and your are fully aware of your actions.
2007-02-12 01:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by southernman48197 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams of sexual nature is just an ordinary thought or a phase of curiosity. Just because you were dreaming of the a person of the same gender sexually, it does not mean that you are sexually orientated that way, despite the fact that women are LIKELY to be bisexuals than men are.
Just think of it as a joke.
2007-02-12 01:10:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frued would say that you have repressed the feelings that you are homosexual (lesbian) and that you have feelings for the same sex deep down. I love dream interpretation I do, so ask me if you need more advice.
2007-02-12 00:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dream has forecasted your true nature and is telling you to visit your close friend. Of course the dream could work out in reverse by telling you that if you do not visit your close.friend..you will lose her.
2007-02-12 01:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are just ways the mind uses to practise and prepare for situations that might arise. They might be uncovering your unconscious desires or it might just be a side effect of a high sex drive. Either way don't worry too much about them.
2007-02-12 00:49:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This does not mean you are going to 'become a lesbian', it simply means you are curious, and maybe want to try something you have never tried before!
2007-02-12 00:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by sarah e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur afraid to be a lesbian and u think about it much...a dream doesn't mean u are going to be 1 ..its just that u think about it so it comes to u in a dream..i also have some dreams of that kind sometimes...no meaning at all
do not panic ...go tell ur friend she laugh like hell
2007-02-12 00:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dreams are interpreted many different ways one way could possibly be yes though doubt full or it could mean you have a strong relationship with your friends, or it could just mean you need to lay stop munching down on food before bed
i'll give you some advice, don't trust your dreams, your subconsience likes to play tricks on you
2007-02-12 00:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To dream that you are homosexual (but you are not in your waking life), represents an union with aspects of yourself. It is symbolic of self-love, self-acceptance, and compassion.
To dream that you are amorous, denotes that your personal desires and illicit pleasures may land you into trouble. You will find yourself engulfed in scandal.
2007-02-12 01:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋